Ukungafani okumpunga okufanayo kwansuku zonke, okuhamba ngezinyoni emva komunye, kungaletha noma ubani esimweni esicindezelekile. Kodwa ungakwazi ukugcwalisa impilo yakho ngemibala ngosizo lwemizwa emihle. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zemizwelo emihle, ngamunye wabo uyoletha icala elihle emhlabeni wakho.
Uhlu lwemicabango emihle:
- Intshisekelo, intshisekelo, ilukuluku - inzwa evame ukwenzeka njalo, ishukumisa ukuthuthukiswa kokucabanga, ulwazi, amakhono. Intshisekelo yikhuthazo kuphela esisekela ukuqaliswa komsebenzi wemihlahlandlela. Umuntu onentshisekelo unesifiso sokwandisa isipiliyoni sakhe, ukuhlola into entsha. Ngesithakazelo esinamandla, umuntu uzizwa evuselelwa futhi enomdlandla.
- Okumangazayo kuyinkulumo edlulayo: ivela ngokushesha futhi idlulele ngokushesha. Umsebenzi walo ukulungisa umuntu izenzakalo ezisheshayo noma ezintsha, izenzo eziphumelelayo.
- Injabulo - ibhekisela emizweni emihle yomuntu, ebonakala ngomqondo wokuzethemba, ukubaluleka, ikhono lokunqoba ubunzima nokujabulela ukuphila. Kuhambisana nokwaneliseka, ukuthula nabantu abakuzungezile, ukuzwa amandla okuthola amandla namandla. Injabulo ivuselela lapho umuntu ebona amandla akhe. Izithiyo endleleni yokuziqhenya zivimbela ukubukeka kwenjabulo.
- Injabulo yimizwa enamandla kunazo zonke. Kwenzeka uma umuntu efinyelela umgomo noma lapho lo mzuzu usondela. Umgwaqo wenjabulo usezindleleni, amaphupho, imigomo. Bayalindela umphumela, okufaka isandla ekuthuthukiseni imizwa emihle. Umgomo ufinyeleleke kakhulu futhi usondelene, kancane kancane umuzwa wenjabulo. Umuntu ofuna ukuthola injabulo ngokugcwele, kufanele anqume amakhono akhe futhi afinyelele imigomo enzima, edelelekile.
- Ukubonga - kuzalwa lapho umuntu ezwa ukubonga, uyaqonda ukuthi uthola inzuzo ethile.
- Ithemba lithemba, inkolelo yokuthi konke kuyoba kuhle ekugcineni. Izinkinga kubonakala sengathi azixazululwanga, umuntu ubona ikusasa elikhanyayo futhi ukholelwa ukuthi izifiso zakhe zizogcwaliseka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini.
- Ukuthula - kubonakala lapho konke kuhamba kahle, uzizwa ukhululekile futhi uzolile. Umqondo wakho awunzima ukukhathazeka. Ukuthula kufike isikhashana sokuzola nokuthula lapho umuntu engase ajabulele okwamanje.
- Sizizwa injabulo yokwesaba nokuzibuza ngento enhle kakhulu. Kungaba yinto emangalisayo yemvelo, imisebenzi yobuciko, impumelelo kwezobuchwepheshe. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo kufika ukuqonda ukuthi singumbewu kuphela ezweni elikhulu.
Indlela yokuthola imizwa emihle?
- Ungathola imizwelo emihle ngosizo lwamagama ajwayelekile. Cishe wazi ukuthi lawo mazwi amnandi, akhulunywa ngumuntu othandekayo, ngokushesha akhulise imizwa. Amagama abangela imizwa emihle, kumuntu ngamunye, ayigugu.
- Enye indlela yokwenza imizwelo emihle yimihlangano nabangani bentsha nentsha. Yiya emhlanganweni wabaphothumayo noma umhlangano onobungane futhi ukukhokhwa kwemizwa emihle kuqinisekiswa kuwe.
- Thola okulungile empilweni yakho. Hlola kabusha isimo ngasinye futhi unikeze umbala omuhle. Umbono onethemba lomhlaba ikuvumela ukuba uthole imizwa emihle nemicabango.
- Uma ungazi ukuthi ungathathaphi imizwelo emihle - uhambo. Okukhethwa kukho ukuhamba olwandle, kodwa ungazifihla edolobheni lakho. Ukunikezela usuku lonke ukuhamba emahlathini, leli paki lizokunika umoya omuhle.
- Thola okuzilibazisa kwakho. Ukuqaphela ukudala kuzokwenyusa okungalungile futhi kunikeze injabulo.
- Smile kaningi. Ubuchopho bethu abukwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokumomotheka okuqotho nobuxoki, kuphendula njengokungathi kuyiqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nenkohliso ingabangela imizwelo emihle.
Izwe lomzwelo ligcwele impilo yonke yomuntu: ukuxhumana, ukuxhumana nabantu, umsebenzi nokuqonda. Isenzo semizwelo emihle sinkulu kakhulu: basivumela ukuba sandise izenzo nezindlela zokucabanga ezivamile, ukudala izinsiza zethu, kusenze sijabule, sithuthukise impilo kanye nenhlalakahle ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.