Umphakathi wanamuhla uyinkimbinkimbi ehlelekile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuzama ukulinganisa, izindinganiso eziye zathonywa ifa lemasiko namasiko ahlukene. Njengoba wazi, noma iyiphi i-macrosystem inamalungu amaningi, futhi umphakathi awuyona into ehlukile. Ngamunye wabamele bakhe, ngandlela-thile, kunomthelela ekwakhiweni kwayo yonke "imvelo" yonke, kodwa ngokwemvelo umthetho wempendulo usebenza futhi futhi, ithonya lomphakathi ekwakheni ubuntu bomuntu ngamunye alibalulekile futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ebalulekile.
Uvelaphi?
Noma yimuphi umuntu kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakhe awela endaweni ethile yezenhlalakahle, lapho indima yakhe idlalwa khona ngamasiko, amasiko, kanye nezindinganiso zenkolo namasiko. Umndeni, umbuthano wangaphakathi futhi, ekugcineni, imigodi evunyelwe ngokuvamile lapho izwe esizihlanganisa nalo liqala, ngokushesha nje lapho singena esikhathini esingazi kahle, kanjani kusuka ku-plasticin esiyibumba kithi okuzobe kamuva kube yinto yethu eyinhloko futhi sinqume lokho okungokomoya nokuziphatha vector, egxile kuyo, sizokwakha impilo yethu yesikhathi esizayo.
Ngakho-ke, ithonya lomphakathi ekubunjweni kobuntu likhulu futhi akunakwenzeka neze ukunciphisa ukubaluleka kwalo kuleli zinga. Kodwa esikhathini esizayo, asiyeki. Sibheka njalo imithetho ehlonishwayo yokuphila lapho sikhetha ukukhetha okunye noma okunye ukuxhumana nabanye futhi sizama ukunikeza ukuhlola okuhloswe kokuziphatha kwabo ngokuvumelana nalezi zinqubo. Ngakho ithonya lomphakathi ngobuntu bomuntu liyaqhubeka nokuphela kwezinsuku zakhe. Umphakathi ungabenza, futhi ungaqondisa. Ulenga amalebula, ngokusho ukuthi isimo sethu nendawo esiphila kuzo ezikhundleni ezifanayo zizimisele. Konke lokhu kuthinta amandla kanye nobuthakathaka buntu bethu, kusenza sikwazi ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokuzivumelanisa nesimo, kuye ngezimo.
Kholwa noma uyaqonda?
Kodwa ithonya lomphakathi ekuthuthukiseni komuntu siqu akulona lokhu kuphela. Ukudideka kwemibono ehlukene yamasiko noma ukushintsha kwabo okuphoqelelwe (isibonelo, ukuthuthela kwelinye izwe) kungaholela ekwakhekeni komuntu ngamunye othathwa ngomqondo wokungena ngaphakathi kanye nokuphazamiseka engqondweni yomuntu
Imvelo esisizungezile ivame ngokucacile ukuthi yimuphi umnyama, futhi lapho i-white, kodwa phakathi kwala mibala emibili empilweni, njengoba yaziwa, kunezinhlobo eziningi ze-shades futhi naphezu kwethonya elingenakulinganiswa lomphakathi kumuntu, kakhulu ekubunjweni kwayo nasekuthuthukisweni okuqhubekayo kuxhomeke ezingeni lokuzihlaziya indoda kanye nesifiso sakhe sokuba nesimo sokuvumelana kwangaphakathi nobuqotho, kanye nokusebenzisana nokwehlukana kwemvelo yomphakathi.