"Uma nje ngikhumbula, angizange ngithande umuntu, ekuqaleni ngangizizwa esikoleni ukuthi angithandi abafana, ngakho angizange ngiphumelele abafana esikhungweni, ngani? Angiyena omubi, ngigqoke, akunjalo, hhayi emfashini yakamuva, kodwa hhayi embi, futhi ngingabamba ingxoxo, kuyini inkinga? "Ingabe nawe uthola imicabango enjalo? Khona-ke kubalulekile ukwenza okuthile ngokuphuthumayo, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke kube isikhathi eside ukuchitha yonke impilo yakho yedwa. Mhlawumbe ngaleso sikhathi, ngasikhathi sinye endlini yezindela, eh? Awunaso isifiso esinjalo? Bese uyeka ukuzithokozisa ngemibuzo enjengokuthi "Kungani ngingathandi amantombazane?" Futhi "Ngabe amantombazane angathandi amantombazane, futhi yini ayithandayo?" Futhi qala usebenze! Isisekelo lapho intandokazi yentombazane ehlukile kobulili obuhlukile isekelwe ukuzethemba kwayo. Kodwa indlela yokufeza ngayo, manje sizoyiqonda.
Izithelo ezinhle zingenza noma yini!
Ucabanga ukuthi impumelelo yamadoda isetshenziselwa kuphela amantombazane anezici ezifanele kanye nesimo esihle, futhi aqiniseke ukuthi amantombazane amafutha ayithandi muntu? Okokuqala, iyini incazelo "yegqinsi"? I-Chubby, i-plump, i-pyshechki, njengalokhu futhi ayikho enye into. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, bonke abantu bahlukile, umuntu udinga imodeli yentombazane, kanti omunye uhlanya ngamantombazane athambile futhi ahlanzekile. Inzuzo enkulu ukunikeza isithunzi sakho. Futhi uma wena, njengoba bekusho konke kubo, akufanele ufihle ubuhle bezinto ze-baggy. Kodwa izingubo akuzona zonke izinto. Cabanga ngobuhle obubonakalayo emhlabeni wonke, ngezinwele ezingavuthiwe, izinwele ezingavunyelwe, ukungabi khona kokwenza kanye nezipikili eziphukile. Ukwesaba, kwesokudla? Ngakho-ke yini ongayitholi isigamu sehora ukuze uthole umuthi we-manicure bese uphinde uvakashele ukuvakashela unwele? Vele uqaphele ukwakheka - amathani we-"plaster" kuzokukwenza ube mnandi, futhi ungathandeki. Isibambiso sobuhle yizindebe ezihlanziwe kahle, amehlo ahlolisisiwe (egcizelelwe kahle) kanye nomzimba onempilo (hhayi obomvu obomvu ovela ebhontini lelanga). Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, smile. Ukumamatheka kobuso abaningi kwenza kube mnandi kakhulu kangangokuthi amadoda akakwazi ukuwayeka amehlo, futhi ngisho nokudonsa kwethakazelisa akulimazanga muntu okwamanje.
"Futhi yena uhloniphekile kakhulu, ubonakala sengathi uhamba phambili ..."
Ucabanga ukuthi, intombazane egwebayo ayibuki ubuso lapho ekhuluma, futhi ibukeka njengezinyane elinemilenze ephukile? Okwedlule - kuyisihawu, kodwa asidingi umphumela onjalo nhlobo. Ngakho-ke sisheshe siqondise (ungaphinde uhambe ekhaya nencwadi ekhanda lakho ukuze uvuselele). Yebo, futhi ngaphezu komusa jikelele akuwona umsebenzi omubi - lokhu kuzosiza ekutheni usebenzise izindlela zokudlala nokudansa.
Ngokufanayo nangokubukeka-siqeqesha, senza lokho okuvela esibukweni kubheka intombazane enhle. Futhi ukubuka okunjalo nokunyakaza okubushelelezi, unganqikazi ukusebenzisa ngokusebenza. Into eyinhloko akuyona ukudidanisa owesifazane ngendlela yokuziphatha nokuziqhenya.
Futhi-ke, sifunda ukukhuluma ngendlela yokuthakazelisa ku-interlocutor. Asigxili ngokuqinile, ikakhulukazi emhlanganweni wokuqala, sibonisa isithakazelo - asivimbeli umfana ukuthi angakhulumi ngaye, njll.
Ukukhipha emanzini kubi?
Akukhona okuningi mayelana nokukhululwa, amantombazane angaki aqondi kahle leli gama. Ukuzimela, ukuba khona kwemibono yomuntu siqu kanye nokukwazi ukuyivikela, ngenxa ye-erudition kanye nemfundo - konke lokhu kuyizinzuzo zokukhululwa, okungafanele kushiywe. Kodwa ukukopisha indlela yomuntu yokuxhumana akudingekile. Uma intombazane eziphatha njengomuntu engathandi umfana, lokho akumangalisi. Amantombazane anjalo awakuboni njengabantu ngabanye ongakha nabo ubuhlobo bomshado,
Lokho amantombazane abathanda abafana, impendulo yangempela ngeke iphume - wonke umuntu uthanda izinto ezahlukene, kodwa into esemqoka ukuthi lokhu kufanele kube yendalo. Ungabi namahloni njalo ube yedwa, bese umbuzo othi, "Kungani ngingathandi abafana?" Kuzoyeka ukufaneleka.