Yonke iminyaka yesikhashana iyisivivinyo kubazali. Lapho kunzima nakakhulu, uma lesi sikhathi singapheli futhi ingane ihlale iveza izinkathazo ngendlela yokuziphatha okungavamile. Omunye kumele abhekane nezikhalazo eziqhubekayo zokuhlukumezeka ezikhungweni, kanti abanye babhekene nokuphambene nombutho obonakalayo nokuhlukaniswa kweqembu. Yini okufanele abazali bazi futhi ukuthi bangayisiza kanjani ingane ukuba ivumelane nomphakathi?
Kusuka ngokweqile kuya ngokweqile
Njengomthetho, siyajabula lapho ingane ingabangane noontanga futhi ingabonakali. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lokhu kwenza kube lula ukukhushulwa futhi kwenza kube lula ukukhetha isikhungo semfundo. Ngeshwa, namuhla kunezimo eziningi lapho ingane iziphatha khona ngokuhlukile kunabazali nomphakathi abafuna.
Yiziphi iziphambeko ezingabonwa ngabantu abadala?
- Ukwesaba ngokweqile . Cishe zonke izingane ziqala ukuzijabulisa futhi zithola kalula ulimi oluvamile neontanga. Inkinga yokwesaba ivame ukutholakala enkambeni yokungenela kwabazali. Isibonelo, i-crumb iguga kaningi futhi abazali bayenqaba ngamabomu enkulisa noma bangamvumeli ukuba ahambe ezindaweni ezivamile emaphakathini. Qaphela: ngezinye izikhathi sididanisa amahloni ngesidingo sokuba semfihlo. Uma ingane yakho ikwazi ukubhekana nomuntu omdala bese ubuza okuthile, kodwa ayifuni ukuthatha ingxenye emidlalweni yeqembu (kunalokho idonsa noma iqoqa amapuzzli), khona-ke asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka.
- Enye inketho ingxabano eqhubekayo. Kulokho ingane engayilwi khona. Ingxabano yokugcina ingaba ngesimo somsindo noma esikhulu. Ngenxa yalokho, kulula ukuba izingane zingaziqapheli kunokuhlala zingena esimweni esingathandeki. Lapha izimpande zenkinga zikhona emndenini. Izingane ezinjalo ziyanqikaza ukwabelana futhi zihlela njalo amahlaya kuphela ngenxa yokuthi zisetshenziselwa ukuziphatha ekhaya. Abantu abadala banakekela kakhulu ingane noma benze izidingo eziphakeme. I-crumb ikhipha nje into engalungile, eqoqwa ekhaya.
- Ukuhlukunyezwa nganoma yisiphi isizathu . I-warrior encane ngezinye izikhathi ayilethe izinkinga ezingaphansi nje kwezingane ezinamandla kakhulu. Umthombo wokuqala walokhu kuziphatha uhlola imingcele yalokho okuvumelekile. Ngenhlanhla, lokhu kukhetha kuvame ukuhlangana. I-crumb ivele izama ukuqonda ngokusemandleni lokho angayenza, nokuthi yini ezojeziswa. Isimo sesibili siphindisela ukuhlambalaza. Omunye wancenga ingane yakho ngokungenakuziphendulela, futhi wathatha u-yebo wamshaya ngamandla akhe onke. Bheka lapho ingane ikwazi ukubona khona indlela yokuziphatha. Isimo esibuhlungu kakhulu uma ukuhlukunyezwa kuyisici somlingiswa futhi kuyadingeka usizo lochwepheshe.
- Okungaxhunyiwe . Kukhona isigaba sezingane ezinzima ngempela ukusungula uxhumano nezwe langaphandle. Abazali kusukela ekuqaleni babona ukuziphatha okungajwayelekile: kusukela ebuntwaneni abantwana abanjalo bangagulisi izimpondo zabo futhi bangamomotheka lapho bebona umama wabo; esikhathini esizayo abahambisani namathoyizi aqhakazile futhi bakhetha ukuzodwa kanye nefantasy. Izingane ezigunyazayo zidinga indlela ekhethekile, ngoba azivumeli abantu bangaphandle ezweni labo futhi ngokuvamile banikeza umbono wokubuyela emuva. Kodwa ingane enezwe elinjalo langaphakathi ngezinye izikhathi lihlakaniphile kakhulu, linamakhono ngaphezu kwengane evamile. Umsebenzi wakho ngosizo lesazi sengqondo ukuthola indlela
futhi unqobe ukwethenjwa kweziqu, bese kancane kancane ungamlethela ukuxhumana nabangane bakhe. - I-Genius ayivami ukuletha injabulo kubanikazi bayo. Izingane, ezihluke ngokucacile kwabanye ekuhlakanipheni okuphakeme, nazo zinenkinga eminingi yokuxhumana, njengoba zivele zithukuthele ngabangane babo. Uma ingane yakho ibuza njalo indawo ethile futhi inikezwa lokhu kuqeqeshwa, kufanele ngokushesha ubuke imibuthano ezithakazelisayo. Lapho, i-crumb ingathola umjikelezo wokukhulumisana lapho ezozizwa ekhululekile khona.