Yimuphi kithi ongenayo izinkinga! Kodwa ukuze abenze abambalwa, izazi zengqondo zithi umuntu udinga ukuzithanda yena: amasu akhethekile angokwengqondo aye adalwe ukuqeqeshwa.
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Njengomthetho, labo abangazange bathande uthando olwanele ebuntwaneni babo abazithandi ngokwabo. Bakulungele ukuzidela, ukulahla izinzuzo kanye nenduduzo ngenxa yezingane (abazali, indoda, njll). Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ababonanga lutho olukhethekile ngokwabo, ababheki ukuthi bayakufanelekela ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa, kanti labo abazungezile, okwamanje, basebenzisa izimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu zabantu abanjalo ngendlela engacacile. Ngakho-ke, yisikhathi sokuthola ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuzithanda wena, futhi uthathe isinyathelo ngokwakho.
- Okokuqala, zicabange esibukweni (yenza lokhu uma usendaweni yedwa) futhi uqonde ukuthi ungubani, futhi lokhu kuyintando yakho, ngoba okunye akunjalo. Zithokozisa wena, noma ngabe okokuqala umomotheka uzohlukunyezwa ngisho nokukhathazeka okuncane. Qinisekisa: ngesonto uzojabula ukumomotheka ekucabangeni kwakho esibukweni.
- Futhi manje uzibize igama lethenda, udumise ngokwento ethile (okungenani i-borscht, okutholwa yedwa kuphela okumnandi kakhulu).
- Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungazithanda kanjani, sebenzisa amathiphu alandelayo: bhala kushidi kukholomu zonke izimfanelo zakho zomuntu siqu kanye nobuntu nje kuphela (ukuphendula, ububele, ububele, ikhono lokufaka i-embroider, njll). Kuhle, uma uqoqa lawo mahlanu. Futhi manje ngakolunye uhlangothi - lokho ongakuthandi ngawe (futhi no-50). Funda, futhi manje ushise leli qabunga bese ukhohlwa ngakho, kodwa leli pheshana, lapho kubhalwe khona izimfanelo zakho ezinhle, zifunde njalo nsuku zonke.
- Usadinga ukuqonda ukuthi ungakwamukela kanjani futhi uzithande ngokwakho - hamba kumuntu wezinwele, wenze ikhanda elisha, u-manicure, ujikeleze ezitolo, uthenge okungenani into eyodwa entsha. Kanti futhi - hamba esitolo sezinto zokucweba bese uzama ngendandatho enhle. Awudingi ukuthenga, kodwa ukufaneleka kufinyelela ngcono isimo sakho sengqondo . Futhi manje hamba ekhaya futhi ubuye futhi esibukweni: akuyona owesifazane obonakala kuye okuhle? Akufanele yini ukuthandwa futhi anakekele? Kulungile. Ngakho-ke, kuqala wena ngokwakho uzothanda ngokwakho, uzihloniphe, futhi lapho, ubona, kanti abanye bazoqonda ukuthi ufanelwe konke okuhle kulokhu kuphila.