Izilwane eziningi zinendlela yokuxhumana nomunye nomunye, kodwa inkulumo yenziwa kuphela emphakathini wesintu. Lokhu kwenzeka njengomphumela wokuthuthukiswa kwabantu abasebenzayo kanye nabaseduze, okuholela ekudingeni ukukhulumisana okukhiqizayo. Ngakho-ke, kancane kancane imisindo evela endleleni yokuveza imizwelo yaba yindlela yokudlulisa ulwazi mayelana nezinto. Kodwa ngaphandle kokuthuthukiswa kokucabanga, lokhu ngeke kwenzeke, ngakho-ke umbuzo wobudlelwane phakathi kolimi nolwazi lwabantu luhlala endaweni yokugcina kwengqondo, izazi zefilosofi nazo zabonisa isithakazelo kule nkinga.
Ukuqaphela, ukucabanga, ulimi
Inkulumo yomuntu ivumela ukuthi senze imisebenzi emibili ebaluleke kakhulu - ukucabanga nokuxhumana . Ukuxhumeka phakathi kokuqonda nolwimi kunzima kangangokuthi lezi zenzakalo azikwazi ukuhlala ngokwahlukana, akunakwenzeka ukuhlukanisa omunye komunye ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ubuqotho. Ulimi ngesikhathi sokuxhumana luyindlela yokudlulisa imicabango, imizwa kanye nanoma yiluphi olunye ulwazi. Kodwa ngenxa yobuningi bokuqonda komuntu, ulimi lubuye lube yinto yokucabanga, esiza ukuloba imibono yethu. Iqiniso liwukuthi umuntu akhulumi kuphela kodwa ucabange ngosizo lwezindlela zokufunda ulimi, ukuze aqonde futhi aqonde izithombe eziye zavela nathi, ngokuqinisekile kudingeka zifake ngesimo somlomo. Futhi, ngosizo lolimi, umuntu uthola ithuba lokugcina imibono yakhe, okwenza kube yindawo yabanye abantu. Futhi kungenxa yokulungiswa kwemicabango ngosizo lwelulwimi abantu abathola ithuba lokuhlaziya imizwa yabo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho ngendlela ehlangene.
Naphezu kokubumbana okungenakunqunywa kolwazi nokuqonda, akumele kube khona uphawu lokulingana phakathi kwabo. Ukucabangela kubonisa isimo sangempela, futhi leli gama liyisindlela sokuveza imicabango. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi amagama akakuvumeli ukuba ubhale ngokuphelele umqondo, futhi enkulumweni efanayo, abantu abahlukene bangabeka izincazelo ezahlukene.
Kodwa kukhona ukuxhumana okuqondile phakathi kokuthuthukiswa kolwazi lokuxhumana nokuqonda. Okusho ukuthi, inkulumo isuka ekuqapheliseni komuntu, hhayi ukucabanga kwakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akufanele sicabange ulimi njengokubonakaliswa kokuqaphela, kuphela ukuhlanganiswa kokuqukethwe kwalo. Ngakho-ke, inkulumo ecebile ibonisa okuqukethwe okucebile kokuqaphela. Kodwa ukuhlola le mzuzu kuyadingeka ukugcina lesi sihloko ezimweni ezahlukene, ukungenzeki kwalokhu kuvame ukuphakamisa iziphetho ezingalungile ngomuntu.