Uma ufuna ukuthandwa nokuzwelana ngabangane bakho nabalingani nabo - qiniseka ukuthi uzophumelela! Ngisho noma kubonakala sengathi awunakho ubuhle, ubuhle, ukuhlakanipha noma ukuphumula, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukholelwa kuwe. Noma iyiphi intombazane ingaba isikhungo sokukhanga uma ilandela imithetho elula.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ukhulume ngokuthi ungathandwa kanjani nabangani bakho nezintombi esikoleni, bheka - okungafanele ukwenze noma ngabe yikuphi:
- ukuze uthande umusa kulabo ofunda nabo;
- Ukuhlazeka, ukufanelwa ubungane bomuntu;
- silingisa imikhuba yamantombazane adumile, ukukopisha ukuziphatha kwabo;
- ukuhlangana nabesilisa ukuze babhekwe njengento ezithakazelisayo futhi kufanelekile ukunakwa.
Uma abangane bakho bebona ukuthi uyahamba nabo futhi bafeza kalula izifiso zabo ezincane, bangase bakhulume nawe, kodwa ngeke kube ubungane obuqotho. Uma uqala ukudela isithunzi sakho nokuziqhenya, ngeke ukwazi ukuthola ukuthandwa kwangempela esikoleni noma enkampanini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima kangakanani.
Futhi kanjani ukuba yintombazane ethandwa kakhulu?
Ukuqala - ukuqapha ukubukeka kwakho nendlela yokuziphatha. Uma intombazane ibheka okuhle, uzizwa eqiniseka. Vele uzithengele izinto ezibizayo nezindabuko nezimonyo - akuzona zonke. Izambatho ezibizayo ezingenasici zingahle zihlale zimbi kakhulu ngenxa yokungahambi kahle noma i-curly gaze, futhi akukho ma-makeup azofihla izinwele ezingcolile nokubukeka kahle. Ngakho-ke, ukuthenga ingubo elandelayo, kubalulekile ukukhetha ukuthi uya kuphi. Lokhu kufanele kukuhlukanise nesixuku, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kufanele ubukeke ngokwemvelo. Phela, abangani bakho abathandi labo ababoniswayo. Yebo, futhi ukuthula ngamabhere, futhi, akuhlonishwa ngokukhethekile. Futhi ujwayele ukuziphatha kanjani? Mhlawumbe uchitha isikhathi wedwa, ungazinaki abafundi? Noma ukudonsa futhi ukuhlekisa ngonya? Noma ukukhathazeka ngokuhlekisa kwakho nokuhleka?
Khumbula ukuthi kungenzeka ukuba uthandeke kokubili esikoleni futhi phakathi kwezingane, intombazane engaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ethanda ukuthanda. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu kuyadingeka ukukhulumisana ngendlela efanele, ukubonisa isithakazelo nokunethezeka, ukuba nomqondo wesithunzi. Yiqiniso, kungaba khona abantu ekilasini abangenakukhathazeka ngenxa yokuziphatha okubi noma ukuziphatha kabi, futhi abafuni ukuba abangane nabo. Futhi musa! Kungcono ukuthola labo abasondelene nemibono yabo kanye nomlingiswa wabo. Bangakwazi ukutadisha esikoleni esifanayo, futhi bangaba yingxenye yesikhungo sezokuvakasha noma studio yeshashalazi, kube yizigcawu ezivamile zezinja noma izishoshovu zenhlangano yentsha. Ungayibheki indlela yokudumile kumbuthano oyedwa, ngoba esikoleni ungabonakalisa kusuka kunoma yiluphi uhlangothi - nasesifundweni, nasembusweni womphakathi, nakulokudala.
Indlela yokuthandwa phakathi kwalabafana?
Njengabo bonke abanye abantu, amantombazane afana namantombazane ajabulisayo futhi anenhlalo. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga sonke isikhathi samahhala sokuxoxa nabo ngaphandle kwekhefu.
Umuntu othakazelisayo akazikhulumi yena ngokwakhe, naye ulalela ngokucophelela. Yiba nesithakazelo endleleni abafana abenza ngayo izinto, xoxani ngezihloko eziseduze nabo. Cishe, awukwazi kancane ngebhola, ama-carburettors nezithuthuthu, kodwa akudingekile. Ngempela, ungabacela ukuba batshele kabanzi ngemininingwane. Noma funda izihloko ezimbili noma ezimbili kwi-Intanethi uphinde usekele ingxoxo ngokubuza imibuzo. Wonke umuntu uyajabula lapho ethanda yena noma umdlalo wakhe wokuzilibazisa.
Yileyo ndlela ongayithola ngayo ngokushesha phakathi kwalabafana - balalele, bavumele baxoxe ngokwabo. Ngakho-ke akudingekile ukuba bangabaze noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, kufanele banikezwe futhi baziphathe ngokungcolile. Ngakho ngeke uthole ukuthandwa, kodwa idumela lentombazane enesifiso esiningi esikoleni, ohlangana konke ngokungakhethi futhi ecabanga yena ngokwakhe, othandekayo, kanye namadoda.
Yiba nemvelo futhi ukhululeke. Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uthathwa intombazane ezithakazelisayo, okuthakazelisayo ukuchitha isikhathi. Qonda - yini enhle kuwe, yini embi, yini ewusizo nalokho okungekho. Ungazami ukufana nomuntu, yiba yiyona leyo amantombazane azofuna ukulingisa!