Wonke umuntu uzalwa kuleli zwe lihlanzekile, lumnene futhi lijabule. Ngesikhathi esemncane, uhambele abantu abanomusa, abanothando nabangempela. Kodwa-ke, ubuntwana buhamba ngokushesha futhi sekuyisikhathi sokukhula, bese isikhathi lapho umuntu eqala ukuqoqa imizwelo emibi nangemihle.
Abantu abaningi asebekhulile banelisekile kakhulu ngokuphila futhi bazicabangela bengathokozi futhi abakwazi ukujabulela ngokugcwele ukuphila. Ngakho-ke ungathola kanjani ukuthula nokuzethemba, ukuthi ungaphuma kanjani emanzini bese ubona imibala ekhanyayo yomhlaba - ake sizame ukuyifunda ndawonye.
Indlela yokufunda ukujabulela amathiphu okuphila
Uyazi ukuthi yilabo kuphela abavulekile emhlabeni futhi bayakwazi ukubona konke okwenzekayo ngokungathandi, ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza nokunganeliseki, bayakwazi ukujabula nokumomotheka ngobuqotho? Uma uzimisele ukuba omunye walaba bantu abanenhlanhla, kuzodingeka ulandele iseluleko sethu.
Ngakho-ke, ukubusa kokuqala futhi okubaluleke nakakhulu endleleni eya enjabulweni nokuphumelela ukukhathazeka ngobuqotho kubantu abaseduze nabathandekayo. Yiqiniso, ufuna ukusiza othandekayo bakho kuqala, kodwa ubugovu bukude kakhulu nemfanelo edingekayo ekufuneni injabulo nokuzethemba. Udinga ukufunda ukujabulela izinto ezincane ezenzeke hhayi kuwe kuphela.
Ake sithi intombazane ithole isikhwama esivela kumuntu othandekayo, oye waluphupha isikhathi eside. Ungakhohlisi bese uhlafuna, uzama ukumomotheka. Phonsa imicabango emibi futhi ujabulele ngempela othandekayo. Zama, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzokujabulela le nqubo.
Iseluleko sesibili esifuna ukukunika - musa ukuhlala simanje, ukuhamba njalo, wenze imidlalo. Ngokuvamile, abantu banomatasa kakhulu ekufinyeleleni imigomo yabo, ukuthi bayakhohlwa ngokuphelele ngempilo yabo. Kodwa kuyisimo senhlalakahle nesimo sengqondo esisisiza ukuba sibe nesimo sengqondo esihle.
Njalo, kunoma yisiphi isimo, bheka izikhathi ezimnandi. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi konke kuhamba kahle, njengoba uthanda, kodwa awukwazi ukuwuguqula. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukushintsha inkambo yezenzakalo, kuzomele kuthathwe kalula. Kungani uchitha amandla nemisipha nje? Kungcono ukubekezela nokuhleleka ngendlela enhle.
Indlela yokufunda ukujabulela ukuphila nokubona okuhle?
Ukuze ufunde ukujabulela impilo futhi uhlale uhle, udinga ukushintsha umbono wakho ngawe. Yonke into iqala kithi, uma nje ucabanga kabi, kanjalo nabanye abazungezile bayakucabanga ngawe.
Kunendlela eyodwa ephumelelayo kakhulu yokwandisa ukuzethemba. Okubalulekile kwalendlela kuyindlela elandelayo: ekuseni, uma usuphapheme, uye esibukweni, uzomomotheka futhi wenze ezinye izindumiso ezimnandi. Isibonelo - "Yeka usuku oluhle!" Noma "Ubheka kahle, namhlanje unosuku oluhle!", Kungase kungabi nje ukuthi ube nesimo esihle, kodwa futhi ukwandise ukuzethemba.
Ukuphendula umbuzo, indlela yokufunda okuhle nokujabulela ukuphila, ungaphendula - kulula, uma uphatha konke ngokuhlekisa. Uma ulindele ukuthi ekuqaleni noma
Ungahluleli abantu ngobukhulu, uphathe konke okulula, ungazami ukulawula konke nakho konke. Kunoma yikuphi, ngeke uphumelele. Kodwa uma usekela abathandekayo abangazange babe sezimweni ezimnandi kakhulu, hhayi ukuhleka usulu, kodwa ngokucasuka, ngokuqinisekile kufanele bahlonishwe.
Ukuzama ukuthola ukuzithemba , ungakhohlwa ukuthethelela ukwehluleka kwabanye nakwabakho. Sonke asiphelele, futhi ngamunye wethu unelungelo lokwenza iphutha. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi imizwelo emibi nokuhlukunyezwa akukwazi nje ukudweba imibuso ebusweni bakho obuhle, kodwa futhi kuyaphazamisa kakhulu ukuhlala kwakho. Vula umhlaba futhi umhlaba uzophindaphinda!