Abacwaningi bezikhathi zonke kanye nezizwe ngokungangabazeki bagcizelela amandla okucabanga nokukhuluma. Ukuqinisekiswa kwalokhu kungatholakala ezincwadini ezingcwele zanoma iyiphi inkolo: bobabili amadoda ahlakaniphile aseMpumalanga kanye nabafundi baseNtshonalanga bathi yimicabango eyiyo engadonsela isimo esidingekayo. Izinkolelo zethu zangaphakathi ngokuqinisekile zizobonakala ezenzakalweni zangempela. Yingakho isimo sengqondo esihle sokuphumelela yisisekelo sanoma yikuphi ukunqoba.
Isimo sengqondo sengqondo empumelelweni
Umoya wokuphumelela kwabesifazane namadoda awufani. Bobabili bangasebenzisa imicabango emihle ukuze bathole imiphumela. Khumbula impilo ka-Arnold Schwarzenegger: lapho engena emdlalweni, waba uMnu. Olympia; ngenkathi enquma ukuqonda i-cinema - waba ngumlingisi othandwa kakhulu ngesikhathi sakhe; lapho engena ezombusazwe - waba ngummeli waseCalifornia ngokwakhe! Futhi wayezoba umongameli we-United States, uma imithetho yabo ingavumeli ukugijima kulokhu okuthunyelwe kulabo abangazalwanga ezweni.
Ngalokho engakwenzanga, wafinyelela ezindaweni ezingakaze zibe khona. U-Arnold ukhulume ngokuphindaphindiwe ngemfihlo yakhe enkulumweni: wayephindaphindiwe emicabangweni yakhe isimo esifisa, ecabanga ukuthi kungenzeka kanjani. Lapho sekufika isikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo, akazange aqiniseke ngokuphumelela okwesibili, futhi ngokuqinisekile inhlanhla yayiseceleni kwakhe.
Indlela yokulungisa ingqondo engaqondanga kahle empumelelweni?
Thola umkhuba wokuthwala incwadi yezincwadi, lapho ulungise khona yonke imicabango yakho engalungile nemicabango mayelana nomcimbi odinga ukuphumelela kuwo. Uma uhlu lwakho selulungile, qiniseka ukuthi ucabangela konke ukwesaba nezinkolelo ezingalungile, uziguqule zibe yizinto ezinhle, futhi ungazivumeli ucabange ngokubi ngaso sonke isikhathi, esikhundleni somcabango "ongalungile" nge "okulungile". Uma lokhu kuba umkhuba, uzobona amandla akho futhi ukholwe empumelelweni yakho. Kuyinto yokholo olungenakunyakaziswa okukuvumela ukuba ufinyelele noma yikuphi ukuphakama!