Bonke abaseduze kwethu bahlala futhi bajabulele ukuphila. "Umakhelwane uphinde wabeka indawo emotweni, lowo owayengumfundela naye ujabule emshadweni, isisebenzi siphumula ezindaweni zokuhlala ezibiza kakhulu." Kodwa ingabe ngigula? "- ingabe uthola imicabango enjalo? Uma impendulo ihle, khona-ke inkinga ikhona futhi kufanele ilwe nayo. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi akuyona imali engenakunaphakade yemali, umyeni onomsebenzi ohlala njalo noma izingane - izigulisi, kodwa kuwe. Ukuze ushintshe impilo yakho udinga ukushintsha ukuzazi kwakho.
Izindlela zokusikisela ngokuzenzakalela impumelelo
- Yiqiniso, ukuqala impilo entsha kuyadingeka ngento enhle. Ngakho-ke, uthele ikhobe yekhompi yakho oyintandokazi, ikhofi evuselelayo, uthathe ipeni, iphepha bese urekhoda amaminithi angu-10, urekhode zonke izimfanelo zakho ezinhle. Ayikwazi ukukhumbula? Hhayi, kanjani, futhi inja eyondliwe nguwe, awuzange yini uyiphile kusuka emseni wakho wangaphakathi? Noma ukuzinikezela kwakho: usebenza kanjani, lapho abanye abantu ababili bebiza ukuthi yisimo sakho esisha, nonke naningene ebhanini. Ngokuqinisekile, ukuzindla, khumbula eziningi zezici zabo ezinhle, ezikhohliwe ngokuphelele. Ukuzibonakalisa komuntu siqu kusebenza izimangaliso, ngakho funda isici esihle esiqoshiwe izikhathi eziningana futhi uqaphele ukuthi kukhona okuhle kuwe kunokuba kubi.
- Cabanga ngalokho okushoyo ukuba uphumelele. Mhlawumbe lokhu kuwumndeni omuhle, noma ukuchuma endlini, mhlawumbe kokubili. Manje ake siqale isifundo sokudweba. Ekhasini elikhulu, faka iphupho lakho. Makube mnandi futhi ube nemibala: imoto entsha, uphumule ngaphansi kwesundu, umyeni onothando nezingane. Angazi ukudweba? Ungakhathazeki, unqume amaphupho ambala avela kumagazini bese uwafaka ephepheni. Sihlanganisa i-collage ngephupho lakho endaweni evelele kakhulu futhi
Njalo ekuseni siyamthanda futhi sizama ukufeza iphupho lakhe. - Indlela elandelayo iyipelingi. Khetha ngokucophelela imishwana ye-autosuggestion. Akudingeki ukuba, amagama onke ajwayele: "Nginguye othakazelisayo kakhulu ..." Cabanga okuthile okwakho. Wena empeleni uzitholile ngokwakho ngezici ezinhle eziyishumi, lapha futhi uzikhulume. Yenza okufanayo ngamaphupho akho aqoqwe ephepheni, uthi kubo: "Ngifuna imoto entsha futhi ekupheleni konyaka ngizoyithola, njll.
Phinda lezi zinhlamvu nsuku zonke futhi maduzane ukuzithokozisa kwakho okuhle kuzothela izithelo. Kodwa khumbula umthetho owodwa obaluleke kakhulu ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho, awufuni ukwenza okuningi - kufanele ukwenze. Asikho isimo sengqondo esifanele esizokusiza ukuguqula impilo yakho ibe ngcono, kuze kube yilapho isekelwe izenzo.