Imoto enhle kakhulu, izingubo eziphathekayo, izenzakalo zomphakathi, indlu enkulu, izinceku, zihlala ezindaweni ezikude zeplanethi, isibalo esihle, ukubukeka okuthembekile-lapha ziyizinto, izimfanelo zendwendwe yokuphila ejwayelekile owaziyo ukuthi uyifunani. Ifilimu yamafilimu evelelekile emhlabeni wonke idlala indima ebalulekile ekusakazeni lesi sithombe, ngakho akumangazi ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bezama ukuphumelela nokuchuma. Ukuze ujabule, owesifazane wesimanje awunamfudumalo okwanele wezindlu zomndeni.
Iziphi izimfanelo ezidingekayo ukuze uphumelele?
Kodwa-ke, ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala nokucabanga ngendlela yokuba owesifazane ophumelelayo, ake sikhulume ngezimfanelo ozidingayo ukuze uthuthuke kuwe ukuze ukwazi ukufika emgomweni:
Inhloso. Bonke abesifazane abaphumelelayo emhlabeni bazoqinisekisa ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuzibophezela. Kubalulekile ukuchaza umgomo wangempela futhi wenze okungenani nsuku zonke ukuthi kuzokusondeza kuso. Lelikhwalithi liyisisekelo, ngakho-ke yihlakulele.- Ukubekezela. Ngaphandle kokuphikelela ekufezeni umgomo, ngeke uphumelele. Le mfanelo iwusizo kuwe njalo futhi yonke indawo.
- Ukuqiniseka. Kuyaziwa ukuthi abathembeli bazuza okuningi kunezingqinamba. Isimo sengqondo esifanele senza umsebenzi wawo, izifo eziphefumulayo futhi zikukhuthaze ngokuzethemba. Ukumomotheka ebusweni, okuyinto ehambelana nethemba, kunabantu abanokusiza nokwenza othintana nabo abasha.
- Ikhono lokusabalalisa isikhathi. Ikhono lokunikeza ngokufanele isikhathi sokusebenza nokuzilibazisa (ukuphathwa kwesikhathi) futhi ingenye yezimfihlo zabantu abakwazi ukusebenza kahle, okungukuthi, ukuthola imiphumela edingekayo yomsebenzi wabo ngesikhathi esifanele. Owesifazane webhizinisi eliphumelelayo kufanele aqonde ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani lokhu.
Izimfihlo zowesifazane ophumelelayo
Izimfihlo zowesifazane ophumelelayo azigcini nje ngenhla. Okubaluleke kakhulu, mhlawumbe - ukuthola indlela yakho yokuphila, yenza okuthandayo, ngoba kuphela uma wenza okukujabulisa, ungajabula ngempela. I-psychology yowesifazane ophumelelayo yilokhu: into esemqoka empilweni ukuzithola, eyakho kanye neyakho.
Ukuqeqesha izimfanelo zakho ezinhle kakhulu kuyadingeka ngokubeka imigomo elula. Ungaqali nge-global, ngoba, njengendlela yokubonisa, ukuze unqobe inkulumo, udinga ukuqeqesha, ukukhuphulela izintaba ezifinyeleleka kakhulu.
Isibonelo, udinga ukulahlekelwa isisindo, imisipha ye-podkachat, ubeke ukuze u-figure - futhi uqale ngawo. Ukudla kungenye ukuqeqeshwa okumangalisayo kokuzikhandla. Uma ubheka okuhle kakhulu - lokhu kuzokunika inzuzo eyengeziwe, ngoba owesifazane omuhle uhlale eqiniseka kuye, ngoba uzizwa amandla akhe wesifazane. Abesifazane abaphumelele kakhulu bayazi kahle ukuthi ukubukeka kudlala indima enkulu esikhathini sethu. Kubalulekile hhayi nje ukuba ugqoke kahle, kodwa futhi ukubheka impilo enhle, uphumule, ngisho noma uchitha ubusuku obungenalutho. Isithombe sowesifazane ophumelelayo sihlanganisa ukwakheka kwemvelo, isikhumba esiphelele enempilo kanye nesibalo esiqinile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi ungalokothi ukhononde noma ucwebe, ngoba uphendula abantu.
Funda ukubhekana nezithiyo, hhayi ukuzesaba, kodwa ukuqonda njengemidlalo ejabulisayo. Uma ufunda ukungesabi ubunzima, kholwa mina-noma yikuphi icala okuzokuthola ehlombe.
Wonke owesifazane owenza ibhizinisi ophumelelayo ukhumbula umthetho oyinhloko - noma yikuphi ukuphumelela nempumelelo kungumphumela womsebenzi owenza ubuhlungu kuwe.