Izingxoxo zamadoda kusukela esikhathini esidlule zenza isithakazelo esikhulu kubantu abathintekayo ngokobulili obuthakathaka, okuholela ekupheleni kokufa kwengqondo yabesifazane. Abantu bakhuluma ngani? Yebo, mayelana nabesifazane, amabhayisikobho, izimoto, ezombusazwe, ibhola, ezemidlalo nokunye okuningi. Amadoda afisa ukukhathazeka ngokwawo, izinkinga zabo kanye nabanye, bathanda ukuhleba abesifazane besifazane. Kodwa ngaphezu kwezihloko ezingenhla, izingxoxo zamadoda asekhulile ayingxoxo ngezinkinga zokuba, zokubaluleka.
Ingxoxo phakathi kwamadoda amabili nengxoxo phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane yimiqondo ehlukene engabhekiswa kuphela ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene, kodwa futhi nangendlela yokuxhumana. Ekukhulumisaneni phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane , abameleli bobulili bobulili obuhlukile abavami ukuthanda ukukhuluma ngenhliziyo nabathandekayo babo.
Ngezinye izikhathi abafana bathola izinkulungwane zezizathu nezindlela ukuthi ingxoxo ingenzi, ngoba lokhu, ngokombono wabo, umsebenzi ongadingekile ngokuphelele. Intombazane kuzodinga ukuzama kanzima ukwenza le nsizwa ikhulume ngokukhululekile.
Kulungile Xoxa Namadoda
Lona iphupho langempela lalabo besifazane abafuna ukwakha ukuthembela nokugcina inkhulumomphendvulwano enhle, ehlakaniphile nomlingani wakhe.
Sinikeza indlela encane noma imfundo ephathelene "nokusetshenziswa kwengxoxo engagwegwesi nomuntu":
- Dala isimo esifanele sezingxoxo ezizayo. Uma indoda isabela emishweni ye-monosyllabic, cishe cishe ulambile noma unenhloko emsebenzini wakhe.
- Ungaqali ingxoxo ngenkulumo ethi "Kudingeka sikhulume." Ubangela ukwethuka
abameli besilisa besilisa. - Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukucindezeleka ngokweqile kungalimaza isimo sokuxhumana.
- Phakathi nengxoxo, kufanele uhlale unxusa engqondweni yomuntu futhi esikhundleni sokubuza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani, cela ukuthi ucabangani.
- Gwema ukubukeka. Amadoda angakhululekile ngalokhu, kholwa nami.
Cabanga ngalezi zimiso eziyisisekelo futhi ukhumbule - isayensi ye-psychology yendoda nowesifazane ihluke ngokuphelele. Kodwa, naphezu kwalokhu, wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuthanda nokusekela.