Ngokokuqala ngqa, umhlaba wafunda ngokudabuka emisebenzini yomlobi ongumFulentshi uMarquis de Sade (igama lakhe futhi wathola lesi simo), futhi ngokwezesayensi leli gama lavela endaweni yokuqamba kwamagama ka Kraft-Ebing, enyatheliswa ngo-1886. Ngomqondo obanzi kakhulu wezwi, ukudabuka kusho ukuthambekela kwezenzo ezinobudlova nokuthola injabulo ekuhluphekeni kwabanye. Kodwa lesi senzakalo sinezinhlobonhlobo ezihlobene nezinhlelo ezahlukene zokuphila. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukudabuka kwengqondo, ukudabuka phezu kwezilwane, ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi.
Ukudabuka kwengane
Okumangalisa ukuthi, izimpawu zokudabuka zingabonakalisa ebuntwaneni obujulile. Kukholelwa ukuthi iningi lalo mcimbi livezwe kubafana, ngenxa yezinto okuthiwa "ukuxubha kwe-castration". Ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa yinzuzo yakhe yomzimba, lo mfana unesihluku, esichazwe ngesifiso sokuphula okuthile, ukubhubhisa. Kancane kancane, lokhu kwesaba kudlulayo, futhi kukhona nokuhlukunyezwa. Kodwa uma ingane ihlazeka, ikakhulukazi ngubaba, khona-ke ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa yisintu kubhalwe engqondweni. Futhi uma ingane ivaliwe uhlamvu, khona-ke iminyaka yesikole isengozini enkulu ukuthola ubuntu obusungule kakade we-sadist. Futhi, ukuthambekela okudabukisayo kungathuthuka ngenxa yokungazinaki kwabazali, kodwa umuntu akufanele aphuthelwe ukuthi kungenzeka ukugula kwengqondo, uphawu okungenzeka lube lusizi.
Kodwa ukuba khona kokuthambekela okudabukisayo ebuntwaneni akusho ukuthi ingane izokhula isigebengu. UbuSadism bungavamile, okungukuthi, ukungabonakali kuze kufike ihora elithile (isibonelo, ngesikhathi sempi). Abanye abantu bayakwazi ukuqondisa ukukhangiswa okungahambisani nomphakathi nakwezinye iziqondiso - odokotela abaningi odokotela abadumile baye bahlushwa izilwane ebuntwaneni babo.
Ukuhlukumeza ngokobulili
Lolu hlobo lokudabuka luhlobo lokuziphatha ngokobulili, lapho umuntu anelisekile ngokubangela ukuhlupheka kumlingani wesondo. Ngokwezibalo, ukuhlukumezeka ngokobulili kwebesifazane kubonakala ku-2% wabesifazane nabesifazane abangu-5%. Kodwa amantombazane akhetha i-sadism engokwengqondo eningi, kuyilapho amadoda efana nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba ngaphezulu. Lokhu kuziphatha kungaqondiswa ku:
- ezilwaneni;
- kubantu ababuthakathaka kakhulu kunabantwana abadabukisayo - izingane noma abantu abakhubazekile ngokomzimba;
- kubantu abangaphansi kwabo ekuphileni komndeni - oshade naye, izihlobo, izingane;
- kubantu abangaphansi komsebenzi - abasebenzi abasha;
- kubantu abemi bephansi ngaphansi kwesimo somphakathi.
Kunezinhlobo eziningana zokuhlukumeza ngokocansi:
- Ukucabanga - umuntu akaqapheli ukucabanga kwakhe okubuhlungu, ahlala emkhakheni wokucabanga.
- I-Passive. Kulesi simo, i-sadist ivimbela ngamabomu ukuthokozisa ngokobulili komlingani wakhe, ngokugwema ngamabomu izenzo ezenza kube mnandi kakhulu.
- Ulaka. Lokhu kuhlanganisa izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokuhlazeka ngenxa yokuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo ukuze kubangele ukulimala komzimba. Lolu hlobo lwe-sadism luyisihluku kunabo bonke, ngoba luya ekubulaleni ngenjabulo yobulili.
Ukudabuka kwengqondo
Lolu hlobo lokudabuka kwengqondo ekuthiwa yi-psychology lubizwa nangokuthi ukuziphatha noma i-psi-sadism. Kulokhu, isisulu sibhekene nokuhlushwa kokuziphatha nokuziphatha ngendlela yokuthukwa, ukuhlazeka, izinsongo, njll. Ukubala umuntu onjalo ekuqaleni kokubona akulula, ngoba angakwazi ukufihla ukuthambekela kwakhe isikhathi eside. Zizobonisa kamuva, lapho izinga lokuthembana lizokhuliswa, futhi ukuxhashazwa kuzoletha umhlatshelo omkhulu kumuntu ohlukunyeziwe.
Izimbangela ze-sadism nokuphathwa kwayo
Lapho kuvela ukuthambekela okudabukisayo kungagwetshwa ngezici ezihlukahlukene, okujwayelekile kakhulu okulandelayo.
- Amaphutha ezemfundo ahlelekile.
- Amafantastic e-Erotic avela emthethweni wemikhiqizo ye-cinema.
- Ukuqwashisa ngokwabo ngokweqile kwabanye.
- Ukuhluleka ngokomzwelo nangokwezocansi, ukunganakwa kwabanye abantu, ikakhulukazi kubantu bobulili obuhlukile.
- Izici zobuchwepheshe bomlingiswa bomuntu, ubuntu noma psyche.
- Izifo zengqondo.
Okwamanje azikho izindlela eziqondile zokwelapha ubuhlungu, ngoba luhlanganisa zonke izici zobuntu bomuntu. Njengamanje, izindlela zokuqina kwengqondo kanye nokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo zivamile. Uma kwenzeka izimo eziyingozi, izidakamizwa ezilwa ne-anti-androgenic zinqunywe, okunciphisa ukukhanga nokunciphisa ukubonakaliswa okubuhlungu. Kunoma yikuphi, ukwelashwa kuyinde, kunzima ukuthi iziguli ngokuvamile azizwa zidingekile.