Ezimweni kunezimo eziningi ezihlukene lapho thina ngesizathu esithile siziziphatha ngokungalungile noma ezimbi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izenzo ezinjalo zingabangela imiphumela ehlukahlukene engaqondakali, kuhlanganise nokuxabana nabantu abathandekayo. Kodwa-ke, uma uxabana nomuntu obiza kakhulu, lokhu akusona isizathu sokuqeda ubudlelwane. Ungaxolisa intombi yakho bese uvuselela ukuxhumana.
Ukuxolisa kumngani
Uma ucasula intombi yakho, ngokwesibonelo, ukukhohlwa usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa noma ukumemeza, ungamshayela futhi uchaze isimo ukuze athole ukuthi kungani wenza kabi kangaka. Uma ungamlimazi kakhulu, ke-ke, cishe, ngemuva kokubona ukuphenduka kwakho, uzokwehlisa ngokushesha. Ungadluli lesi simo esingathandeki, ngokushesha uma ungakuthola, kungcono kuwe.
Ukuxolisa kumngani omkhulu kunazo zonke kungcono ukuletha umhlangano womuntu siqu, ngakho wabona ukuthi ukhathazeke kakhulu ngalesi simo esingathandeki futhi zama konke okusemandleni akho ukulungisa okuthile.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi uma intombazane yakho isheshe ithukuthele, kungcono ukumnika izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuze imenzele kancane kancane esimweni esingathandeki.
Ungazami ukumbambisana nesipho - kungukuthi amadoda, abafazi phakathi kwabo bangakwazi ukuxazulula yonke into ngamazwi.
Incwadi eya kumngane onxolisayo
Uma ucasule intombi yakho kakhulu futhi engafuni ukukhuluma, unendlela eyodwa kuphela - ukubhala incwadi enhle lapho uchaza isizathu sesenzo esinjalo futhi uveze ukuthi ukhathazekile kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukuyiloba ngobuqotho bese umtshela ukuthi ngeke uphinde uphinde uphinde wenze iphutha, ngoba wamthinta kanjalo. Ngitshele ukuthi ubungane bakho buye buqhubeka isikhathi eside.
Encwadini, akufanele uzivikele noma, nakakhulu, uthi awuvumeli icala lakho. Kulokhu, unquma ukuthi awumukeli nje futhi awuhloniphi imizwa yakhe. Okukhethwa kukho ukuvuma ukuthi unecala, chaza ukuthi kungani wenze kahle, futhi kungenjalo, futhi uthembisa ukuthi ngeke uphinde uphinde uphinde uphutha iphutha lakho. Indlela enjalo izobonisa isimo sakho sengqondo esimweni nesifiso sangempela sokulungisa konke.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi unelungelo lokungathetheleli uma, ngemuva kokungaziphathi kahle kwakho, uwile kakhulu emehlweni akhe. Vele uthathe futhi ube nesibindi sokuphila nemiphumela yezenzo zakho.