Awuwona owokuqala ukubuza ubuqotho bothando lomthandi wakho. Ngokuvamile, bathi uma engabaza, uyayithanda . Ngakho-ke, konke kucacile nawe - ungabaza futhi uthande. Futhi uyini? Ingabe kufanelekile ukuchitha isikhathi kumuntu othi, mhlawumbe, akubone njenge-pacifier yokuchitha isikhathi? Kumele ufunde izinhloso zangempela zesithandwa sakho futhi lokhu kuzokusiza ukuqagela amandla othando.
Umlando omncane
Esifundeni sethu, lapho kuze kube yilolu suku konke okugcwele amandla embi, ukuhlanjalalisa bekulokhu kuthandwa kakhulu. Yebo, uma nje ubusika bude, akukho ukukhanya okwanele, futhi ilanga, ikakhulu ebusika, alibonakali ngokuphelele. Ngaphambili, kwakungekho lutho okwakwenziwa ebusika, ngoba kwakungekho msebenzi enkundleni, konke kwakuhlanganiswe izinqamu zeqhwa, konke okufakwe ifolishi ekudleni, futhi abantu bachitha izinsuku nobusuku ezindlini zabo. Futhi ngenkathi u-Ivan elele esitofu, uMarusya wakhe nabangane bakhe endaweni yokuhlala bajabule ngokubhula ukuze banqume amandla othando ofanayo no-Ivan, owathi ngenyanga yesibili avuke kuphela ukuba adle, futhi athole indebe yetiyi noju.
Ubusika yisikhathi sokungaqondi kahle, yingakho amaholide amaningi, ikakhulukazi amaholide amaqaba, awela ebusika.
Ungaziqagela kanjani?
Sikunikeza indlela elula yokuqagela amandla othando - ngosizo lwamakhadi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, awudingi noma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho kobuqili, nanoma yiluphi uhlobo oluthile olusetshenziswe ngesimo somnyama omnyama ne-oracle. Udinga ipaki lamakhadi angu-36 okungekho muntu owadlalwa ngaphambilini, noma angaqageli.
Ungacabange nganoma isiphi isikhathi sosuku nosuku, into eyinhloko ukuthi akufanele uqagele ngokungazi lutho, kodwa ngesifiso sokwazi iqiniso. Futhi, uma umphumela wokuba nenhlanhla "ungahambisani" (kuvele ukuthi u-Ivan akakuthandi kakhulu), akunjalo, awukwazi "ukuqagela". Umphumela uyobe ungalungile ngo-100%, futhi amandla aphezulu angakucasula futhi adale izinkinga eziningi.
Ngakho-ke, sithatha ipaki yamakhadi, sigubha izikhathi ezingu-9. Susa ingxenye engaphezulu yesandla sokunene kuwe, bese ukhetha amakhadi amathathu:
- okokuqala phezulu kwepaki;
- umzuzwana wesibili;
- okwesithathu ukhethwa ngokungahambisani.
La makhadi amathathu aphendulelwa futhi ahumushe, ngokusho kokuhunyushwa esizokunikeza ngezansi. Imephu ngayinye ihunyushwa ngokuhlukile, ngokuhambisana nenombolo, bese uqoqa lonke ulwazi bese udlula emgodini wobuhlobo bawo.
Ukuchazwa kwamamephu
Izitshalo:
- Izinambuzane - uthando, ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka.
- Bubny - ubungane, ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka.
- Hamba - inkathazo, ukukhohlisa, amanga.
- Amaphuzu - ukukhwabanisa, ukugula, ubuhlungu.
Amamephu:
- Ace usuku, umhlangano.
- INkosi - izenzakalo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
- Le nkosikazi umuzwa ofihlekile.
- I-Knave - imizwa ephindaphindiwe.
- Izinkinga eziyishumi.
- Isishiyagalolunye silinde, kuholele.
- Eyisishiyagalombili - omaziyo omusha.
- Okuyisikhombisa izenzo zakho.
- Iyisithupha ngumgwaqo.