Abesifazane abaningi banesithakazelo lapho beshada, ngabe bayothokoza emshadweni nezinye izindaba ezihlobene nalesi sihloko. Ngokuvamile phakathi nemihlangano yabesifazane, konke kuphelela ngokubhula ngomshado. Kodwa ukuze uthole impendulo eyiqiniso ngempela, udinga ukwazi izakhiwo ezidingekayo nencazelo yawo.
Ukuhlukaniswa ngomshado kumamephu
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze umkhuba onjalo , kubaluleke kakhulu ukugxila emcabangweni womshado okwesikhashana, bese udinga ukubuza umbuzo owuthandayo futhi uqale ukuqagela. Imiphumela iyokusiza ukuba ulungiselele kahle izinhlungu ezihlukahlukene zekusasa. Lokhu ukubhula komshado nothando kuzokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthi ungazama yini ukugqoka izingubo ezimhlophe bese uhamba ngaphansi kwe-awning.
Okokuqala, thola "ikhadi lakho":
- Amantombazane angaphansi kweminyaka engama-30 ehlonishwayo;
- Kwabesifazane abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-30 ubudala indlovukazi yenkosikazi ivela;
- Kubafana abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-30, inkosi yamaDayimane iyakulungele;
- abantu abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-30 ubudala inkosi yenhliziyo isondela.
Ngenxa yalokhu ukuqagela udinga ukuthatha iphakethe lamakhadi angu-52 futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ulixube.
Bala amakhadi angu-20 okuqala bese ubona ukuthi kukhona "ikhadi lakho" phakathi kwabo, kanti kulo nyaka uzoba nomshado. Uma kungekho khadi, yikuthole emgodini bese uyishintsha nanoma yimaphi amabili. Manje hlanganisa amakhadi bese uwafaka emapilini afanayo afana no-1 kuya kwangu-5. Thola inqwaba lapho "ekhadini lakho" khona. Ngenombolo yesiteji, funda umphumela wokubhula:
- # 1 - uzoba umfazi eminyakeni emithathu elandelayo;
- №2 - iminyaka eminingana ngeke uhambe ngaphansi komqhele;
- № 3 - umshado uzoba, kodwa kungekudala;
- № 4 - bazokunikeza umnikelo, kodwa ngeke ufinyelele ehhovisi lika-Registrar;
- №5 - uzobe unesizungu yonke impilo yakho.
Ukuhlukaniswa ngokudlala amakhadi omshado
Le ndlela kufanele ibanjwe ngaphambi komshado . Ukuze ukubhula, udinga ukuthatha ipaki lamakhadi angu-36 futhi
Ngemuva kwalokho, qoqa wonke amakhadi ngokuhlelekile, ungaphazamise futhi uphinde uwabeke emapileni angu-5. Futhi, phinda inqubo ngokususa amakhadi angadingekile. Manje buka umphumela, uma ngemuva kwalokho unezintombi kuphela namakhosi asele, ke ukuqagela kuhle futhi ungaya kwesinye ingxenye.
Okulandelayo, uvula amakhadi abheke phansi bese ubheka i-suit. Uma ngabe le nkosikazi kanye nenkosi ye-suit efanayo beyilandela, umbhangqwana wakho oshadile uyojabula kakhulu futhi uqine.