Igatsha elisha le-psychology social is ubulili, libheka ukusebenzisana kobulili, ukufana kwazo, ukuziphatha okuthile emphakathini, nezinye izinkinga. Umehluko obala phakathi kwabantu awudlali nhlobo lapha. Lesi siqondiso sisiza ukuqonda kangcono ingqondo yezinsizwa zamadoda nabesifazane kanye nobuhlobo obukhulayo phakathi kwabo.
Kusho ukuthini ubulili?
Leli gama livela ngesiNgisi. ubulili - "ubulili", "ubulili". Yayiswa eminyakeni yama-1950 ngu-American Maniologist John Mani. Umqondo wobulili ekucwaningeni kwengqondo uveza imibono yomphakathi yabesifazane nabesilisa, konke okubonakalayo kumuntu okwenzekayo emphakathini. Ungaba nobulili besilisa nowesifazane, kodwa lokhu akuyona umkhawulo. Isibonelo, eThailand, kunezinhlobo eziyisihlanu zobulili: iziqingili, ubungqingili, ubulili besithathu "katoy" kanye nezinhlobo ezimbili zobungqingili besifazane, ezibonakala ngobungqingili nobuningi. Ubulili nobulili bezinto eziphilayo angeke buhambisane.
Ubulili nobulili
Lezi zimbono ezimbili zichaza ukuhlukaniswa kwabantu bonke babe ngamaqembu amabili: owesilisa nowesifazane. Ngokwehumusha kwangempela, amagama alingana futhi ngezinye izikhathi asetshenziswa njengama-synonyms. Noma kunjalo, ekuqaleni lezi zici ziphikisana omunye nomunye. Umehluko phakathi kobulili nobulili kanje: owokuqala uhlobene nokuphila, futhi okwesibili kuyahlukana kwabantu. Uma ubulili bomuntu bunqunywa ngisho nangaphambi kokuba azalwe yizici ze-anatomical futhi akuxhomeki emvelweni nasesimweni, ubulili - ubulili bobulili - buhlobene naso sonke isimiso semibono mayelana nokuziphatha emphakathini.
Ubunikazi bobulili
Ngenxa yokuxhumana nabanye abantu kanye nemfundo, umuntu uyazi ukuthi ungowakhe iqembu elithile. Khona-ke singakwazi ukukhuluma ngobulili. Sekuyiminyaka emibili noma emithathu ingane ibona, intombazane yena noma umfana, iqala ukuziphatha ngendlela efanele, ukugqoka izingubo "ezifanele" ngezindinganiso zakhe nokunye. Kufika ukuqaphela ukuthi ubulili ubunikazi buhlala njalo futhi ngeke bushintshe ngesikhathi. Ubulili luhlala lukhetha, lungile noma lungalungile.
Ubulili yiyona into eyaziwa ngokocansi kanye nokuphathwa okulandelayo kwalezo zimo abantu abazilindele emphakathini. Lona mbono, hhayi ubulili, lokho okukhomba izici zengqondo, amakhono, izimfanelo, izinhlobo zomsebenzi. Zonke lezi zici zilawulwa ngokwezimiso zomthetho nezomthetho, amasiko, amasiko, kanye nendlela yokukhulisa.
Ukuthuthukiswa kobulili
Ezingqondweni zezobulili, izindawo ezimbili zihlukaniswa: i-psychology yezocansi nokuthuthukiswa kobuntu. Lesi sici sinqunywa ubulili bomuntu ngamunye. Ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu bomuntu, indawo eseduze (abazali, izihlobo, othisha, abangane) bathatha ingxenye ngqo. Ingane izama izindima zobulili, ifunda ukuba yowesifazane noma ngaphezulu komuntu, isibonelo sabantu abadala sifunda indlela yokuxhumana nabantu bobulili obuhlukile. Kumuntu onamazinga ahlukene, izici zombili zobulili zingazibonakalisa ngokwazo.
Ubulili ekucwaningeni kwengqondo yisici esiyisisekelo esibonisa ubudlelwane bomphakathi. Kodwa kanye nezakhi ezizinzile kulokho nazo ziyashintsha. Kulezi zizukulwane ezihlukene, izinhlanga, izinkolo, izinhlanga namasiko, indima yendoda nowesifazane ingase ihluke. Imithetho ehlelekile futhi engahlelekile kanye nemigomo ekhona ekushintsheni komphakathi ngesikhathi.
I-Psychology yobuhlobo bobulili emndenini
I-psychology yezobulili inake kakhulu ukutadisha ubuhlobo phakathi kwamaqembu obulili nabalingani bobulili obuhlukile. Ubheka isici esibalulekile sokuphila njengesikhungo somshado nomndeni. I-Psychology yobudlelwane bobulili emndenini ibonisa izindlela zokuziphatha:
- Ukubambisana, lapho yonke imisebenzi emndenini ingabi nokuhlukaniswa okuqinile, abashadile bahlukanisa ngokulinganayo, izinqumo nazo zithathwa ndawonye.
- Othembekile kakhulu, lapho omunye womshado edlala indima ebalulekile, wenza izinqumo ezindabeni zansuku zonke. Ngokuvamile le nkulumo ihamba nomkakhe.
Izinkinga zobulili
Ukungqubuzana ekuziphatheni kwabantu abesilisa nabesifazane kungabangela ukungqubuzana, kokubili okungahambi kahle, okwenziwe ngabantu kanye nokuhlangana. Ukuhlukumezeka ngokobulili kuyindlela yokuziphatha eqinisiwe ephazamisa umbono wabamele bobulili bobabili. Bashayela abantu emkhakheni omncane wemithetho bese bebeka iphethini ethile yokuziphatha, bavula indlela yokubandlulula futhi bahlobene eduze nayo. Lena inkinga yezinkinga ezithile, ezifaka ubulili:
- ukungalingani (amathuba ahlukahlukene emphakathini kumaqembu ahlukene);
- ukucindezeleka kobulili (ubunzima bokugcina indima enqunyiwe);
- ukungafani;
- ukubandlululwa.
Izingxabano zobulili
Abantu abahlukene baqonda izindinganiso zobulili nezindima. Uma kukhona ukushayisana kwezithakazelo zomuntu kanye nemigomo eyamukelwe, kuvela ukungavumelani okukhulu. Umuntu akafuni noma akanakulinganiswa nezilungiselelo ezinikezwe ngumphakathi kanye nokuziphatha kobulili. Ngokuvamile, ukubukwa kwengqondo ngokobulili kubukeka kwengqondo njengomphakathi. Zisekelwe emzabalazweni wezinhloso zazo. Kusukela ekubukeni kobudlelwane obuncane bomuntu, izingxabano zixabana phakathi kwabantu. Okuvamile kunazo zonke kwenzeka emndenini kanye nasesiteji sobuchwepheshe.
Ukucwaswa ngokobulili
Enye yezinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ebuhlotsheni bobulili ububandlululo ngokobulili , owaziwa ngokuthi ubulili. Kulesi simo, ubulili obulodwa bukhethwa ngaphezu kwesinye. Kukhona ukungalingani ngokobulili. Abamele bobulili bobabili bangase babhekane nokubandlululwa emisebenzini, emthethweni, emndenini nakweminye imikhakha, nakuba bevame ukubhekwa njengokuphulwa kwamalungelo abesifazane. Umzamo wokufezekisa ukulingana "nobulili obuqinile" wazalwa nomqondo onjalo njengowesifazane.
Leli fomu lobulili livulekile, kodwa ngokuvamile livaliwe, ngoba ukubonakaliswa kwalo okubonakalayo kubhekene nemiphumela emibili yezombusazwe kanye nezomphakathi. Ifomu elivulekile lingaba:
- ukunganakwa;
- ukuthobeka;
- ukuthanda;
- ukubonakaliswa okungafani okuhlukile mayelana nabantu bobulili obuhlukile.
Ubulili bobulili
Ukungalingani ngokobulili nokucwaswa kuba yisisekelo sokungqubuzana lapho umuntu enza ngokumelene nommeli wobulili obuhlukile. Ubudlova obusekelwe ngokobulili kuwumzamo wokukhombisa ukuphakama kobulili. Izinhlobo ezine zobudlova obunjalo ziyabonakala: ngokomzimba, kwengqondo, ngokocansi nangomnotho. Omunye - usurper wesifazane - uzama ukuthatha amandla ngamandla. Ngokuvamile inendima ye-despot yindoda, ngoba emphakathini wanamuhla awumemezeli ukubusa kwabesifazane.
Ubulili bezobulili insimu encane yolwazi lwesayensi. Ucwaningo lwengqondo kule ndawo lugxile ekuhloleni izici zobuntu bobabili bobulili. Ukufeza okuyinhloko kwalesi sayensi kungukucwaninga kwamasu okuziphatha nokucubungula ekunqobeni ukulingana ngokobulili . Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, owesifazane angakwazi futhi uphumelele ebhizinisini, nomuntu - ensimini yomndeni. Akuzona izici zesimanje, nokugcinwa kwezindima ezibekwe eceleni ngokobulili nokuphumelela ukunqoba izinkinga ezivusa inkinga nokuphikisana kuvumela ukuthi kuthiwe uyindoda noma owesifazane.