Mhlawumbe, wonke umuntu ebuntwaneni wacabanga ukuthi amathoyizi akhe ahlala eyakhe, impilo ekhethekile yokudlala ithoyizi. Lo mbono uyamangalisa futhi, mhlawumbe, ukwesabeka okuncane: kungakanani okuzofika engqondweni kaDonbie udonsa omnandi lapho inkosikazi yakhe imbuyisela emuva. Ikakhulukazi iqala ukukuthusa uma ubheka enye ifilimu edidayo, noma uzofunda incwadi efanayo lapho udonsa, umoya obi uhlala khona, noma umphefumulo womuntu oshonile, noma omunye umzimba womzimba we-astral, udala izenzo eziningi ezimnyama, ukufuna umphefumulo wakhe omnyama, noma intando yomlumbi omubi , okuyinto ilawula.
Ukwesaba amadonsa nezimbangela zalesi simo
Ngokuvamile, umbono wokuthi amadonsa angaba usongo uvame kakhulu emasikweni amaningi anamuhla. Futhi enhliziyweni yayo, njengoba ezinye izazi ze-psychologists zisho, zishaya ukwesaba amapopi - into efana nomuntu, futhi ngesikhathi esisodwa - ukufakelwa ngokuphelele. UZ. Freud ukholelwa ukuthi ukwesaba amapopi, njengamanye amavalo amaningi - kuvela ebuntwaneni bethu. Ukhula ngaphandle kokuqiniseka ukuthi zonke izinyane likhona, ukuthi amadonsa empeleni aphilile, kodwa umuntu omesaba kakhulu, noma (njengoba lokhu kwesaba kubizwa nangokuthi) ukuhamba ngezinyawo , umqondo wokukhipha leli thoyizi alilahlekile noma kuphi. Njengoba ekhulela, uhlanganisa isithombe sezwe futhi akhiqiza i-phobia ehlushwa umnikazi wayo iminyaka eminingi. Ngendlela, i-pedophobes ayesabi yihlobo lamadonki ngokwabo, kodwa ukuthi bangabalimaza: kubangele ukuhlaselwa kwenhliziyo, bawagqeke ebuthongweni babo, noma (futhi lokhu kusabisa kakhulu) kuqale ukuqala ukuhamba, okuzoqinisekisa ukufaneleka noma ukungahlambuluki kwalowo muntu. Ngandlela-thile, kunesimo esithile esithile sokuhamba ngezinyawo - ukuzonda - ukwesaba ukubheka idoli.
Izimpawu zokupheka okuphefumulayo kwamantombazane
Izimpawu zokwesaba amadonsa, njenganoma yikuphi ukuphika, kukhona:
- ukwesaba okungaqondakali okungenangqondo kwezinto eziba yi- phobia , futhi lowo muntu uyaqonda ukuthi ukwesaba kwakhe akuziboleki ekuchazeni okunengqondo;
- Imizamo yokugwema ukuxhumana nale nto ngazo zonke izindlela.
Uma oxhumana naye engakwazi ukugwema, khona-ke umuntu une okuthiwa ukuhlaselwa kwe-panic. Kubonakala sengathi:
- umqondo wokwesabisa okhula othuthumela;
- umqondo ongokoqobo walokho okwenzekayo;
- ukuphazamiseka kombono nokuzwa;
- ukudideka kwesikhala;
- izinhliziyo zomzimba;
- ubunzima bokuphefumula;
- isiyezi;
- ukuthuthumela.
Ukwelashwa kokuzithiba kanye nokuziqhenya
Ngokuvamile lezi phobias azidingi ukwelashwa; okungajwayelekile ukuletha ukungathí sina okukhulu, ngoba into ye-phobia igwenywa kalula kalula. Kodwa-ke, ezimweni ezinzima, izazi ze-psychologists, i-psychotherapists kanye nezifo zengqondo zithatha leli cala, okuyindlela ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene ezenza umuntu akhombise ukuthi amadonsa awaba yisongo kubo.