Ubulili kanye nobulili yizici ezifanayo ngokufanayo, zombili zihlukanisa phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane. Lokho kuphela uma ubulili bugcizelela umehluko wezinto eziphilayo, ngakho ubulili yingxenye yomphakathi.
Umqondo wobulili
Uma siphendukela enkulumweni yobulili, khona-ke singacabanga ukuthi lo mqondo ukhulu kangakanani. Ubulili buyizocansi kusukela ekubukeni komphakathi, okungukuthi, ubulili njengombonakaliso okhomba ukuziphatha nendawo yomuntu emphakathini, kanye nendlela ukuziphatha okuthile okuzobonakala ngayo emphakathini. Imicabango yocansi kanye nobulili ihlangene, kanti eyesibili igxile ekubambeni komuntu emphakathini, kanye nokuziphatha kwakhe okukhomba ubuhlobo namanye amalunga omphakathi.
Ngakho-ke, ubulili kanye nobulili kungumqondo owodwa, ubulili kuphela bugcizelela ohlangothini lwaso lomphakathi. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ngomqondo obanzi, ubulili besifazane abubandakanyi abesifazane kuphela, kodwa futhi namadoda abhekene nokuziphatha komuntu wesifazane (isibonelo, abantu abathandana nabo ngokobulili). Kule ndaba, ubulili kanye nobunikazi buxhunyaniswe ngokuqinile kunobuntu nobulili.
Ubulili nomndeni
Enye yezinkinga zobungqingili ubuhlukile bobulili obuhlukile. Umphakathi uhlose ukunikeza ukuhlolwa komuntu ngokusekelwe ekusebenzeni kwakhe ngendima yomphakathi. Njengoba kulula ukubona, i-psychology yobulili yukuthi umuntu uhlolwe kusukela ekubukeni kwempumelelo yezenhlalakahle nezezimali, nowesifazane - kusukela ekubukeni kokuthola umndeni wakhe nezingane. Lokhu kungukuthi, ngisho nowesifazane ophumelelayo ophethe inkampani kubhekwa ukwehluleka uma engenayo umndeni. Kumuntu, lesi simo ngeke sibangele ukuphazamiseka noma ukulahlwa.
Kodwa-ke, ezinkambeni zanamuhla zobulili zomhlaba azihambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi ngendlela yasendulo emndenini. Kukhona imibumbano lapho owesifazane ehola imali, futhi umuntu uhlala ekhaya nasezingane. Emindenini engama-30%, abesifazane bathola okungaphezu kwabesilisa babo, kepha lokhu akuqapheli nhlobo - futhi isizathu salokhu kungaboniswa ngokobulili.