"Bavumele bathi akukho buhlobo phakathi kwabesifazane ...". Yilokho ngempela, makasho ukuthi, siyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kukhona intombazane enjalo futhi enhle kunazo zonke, futhi lokho kuyinqobela ukuba ahambe maduzane. Uphikisa umbuzo owodwa kuphela, yini ongayinika umngane wakho omkhulu? Emva kwakho konke, asikho isifiso sokususa ezinye izinto, futhi awufuni ukuzama noma yini ukuze uthole njengesipho. Kumele ufake ukucabanga futhi ucabange ukuthi yisiphi isipho ongayinika umngane wakho omkhulu, ngakho wayesekuqaleni futhi wayethanda.
Yini ongayinika umngane othandekayo?
Uma kuziwa kumngane oseduze, umbuzo wokuthi yini engcono kakhulu yokunikeza, abanye bangase babonakale bengavamile, umngane omkhulu, konke kuyaziwa ngokuthanda kwakhe nokuthandayo, ngakho-ke isipho ngeke sikhethwe noma. Kodwa akuyona yonke into elula kakhulu, kunezinkinga eziningana, enye yazo - konke kwase kusekhona kakade. Ube umngane isikhathi eside futhi kubonakala sengathi uyakwazi ukumnika konke okungenzeka. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo wokuthi kungenzeka ukuba unikeze umngane othandekayo wangempela uba ophuthumayo kakhulu - izipho ezingavamile kuphela kanye nendlela ethakazelisayo yokubabonisa kuzosindisa ekuphindaphindiwe.
- intombi yakho ithanda ukugqoka, futhi wanquma ukumnika isongo (isiliva) legolide. Kodwa nje unikezwe ebhokisini njengoba into engathandeki. Ngakho-ke, mnike ibhakholethi (i-chocolate bar) ngaphakathi kwalesi songo, ama-wrappers yanamuhla akuvumela ukuba uvule futhi uvale ukwelashwa izikhathi eziningana. Ngendlela, ngakho-ke ungakwazi ukupakisha kanye nezinye izinto ezingenakuqhakaziza. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ubumnandi buvulekile kuwe, khona-ke ungakujabulela ukumangala emehlweni omngani;
- udweba wena noma unayo indlela yokuhlela isithombe? Ngakho-ke, kodwa ukuze wenze intombi yakho ibe mnandi kakhulu, vumela isithombe sibe sesitayela senkathi. Ungakwazi ngisho ukubhala indaba mayelana nesithombe noma owesifazane ovezwe kuso. Bheka nje ukuthi le ndaba inhle, amathandane amantombazane ayathandwa kunoma yikuphi ubudala;
- beka ukubheja kwakho hhayi ngesipho esisodwa, kodwa ezincane ezimbalwa. Uwafake emabhokisini, uwabophe ocingweni. Phakathi kweholide umeme izimenywa kanye nomgunyathi womkhosi ukuze "bazisike" izipho. Ubunzima ukuthi udinga ukusika intambo ngamehlo akho ivaliwe, ngisho nalabo abambe intambo, bangadansa kancane enkonzweni.
Enye inkinga, uyazi kahle ngokuzilibazisa kwakhe, kodwa uyayiqonda "njengengulube ngama-oranges" futhi wesaba ukumnika into engadingekile. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukungagxili ezintweni ezithandwayo, kungcono ukunaka indlela yokuphila yomngane, kwenzekani manje empilweni yakhe.
- isibonelo, manje usuhlakulele ukuhlakulela ubudlelwane obuseduze. Khona-ke isipho esihle kuyoba yizambatho zangaphansi ezinhle, i-pair of amasitokisi, i-negligee, ukulala kwe-silk;
- intombi yamantombazane omabhizinisi omatasa nazo zonke izinhlobo "zobuhle" azikhathaleli kakhulu? Nikeza lokho angayisebenzela emsebenzini wakhe - ukubhalisela kumagazini ochwepheshe, ukushicilela kokuqala. Kodwa uma uqaphela ukuthi intombazane yakho ivele "imiswe" emsebenzini, unike okuyoyomsiza ukuba aphumule. Izitifiketi ku-salon beauty, for massage, "ukudonsa" it nature. Uma intombi yakho ifika enhle ngesikhathi sothenga, khona-ke uhlele uhambo lokuthenga yezitolo, lapho uthenga into ayithandayo;
- Yebo, uma umngane ethanda indlu yakhe futhi enakekela kakhulu ingaphakathi, mnike izinto zokufinyelela. Mane ukhumbule ukuthi uma ukhetha udinga ukulandela isitayela kanye nombala ohlelweni ekamelweni lapho okufakwe kulo msebenzi.
Yebo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unjani izipho onakho, intombazane kufanele ibuye izimbali. Akufanele kube khona ubunzima, wazi izintandokazi zakhe. Uma usebenzise kahle isipho, futhi izimbali intombazane yakho ayithandi ezishibhile, kuyalinga ukufaka esikhundleni sayo ngezindleko ezibizayo. Kwenze kangcono ukuthi kungadingekile, makube isihlahla esincane (izimbali ezingu-1-3 kanye nemincintiswano encane), kodwa imibala eyintandokazi, kunayo yonke "umshanelo" walabo abangenandaba nayo, noma bayayinzonda.