Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyayithanda noma cha, sithonya njalo. Sikhuluma nabangani, bukele i-TV, sisebenze emsebenzini, ubukele isimo noma ufunde ngisho nencwadi - sisezindaweni zethonya labanye abantu. Kodwa nathi ngokwethu siba nomthelela njalo kwabanye, ngezinye izikhathi ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokuqaphela futhi singayifuni.
I-Psychology yethonya kubantu ihlose ukusetshenziswa kwezinye izisebenzi. Wonke ama-agent agciniwe ezentengiselwano nezokukhangisa, abathengisi, ababonisi kanye nabameleli bendlala yokuphatha bayasebenzisa izindlela zokuthonya izinqumo zabantu.
Ngisho nasekusebenzeni okusebenzayo, ukukhulumisana nomndeni nabangane, sihlale sibhekene nokusetshenziswa kwezindlela zethonya.
Izinhlobo zethonya kwengqondo
- Isicelo . Isikhalazo esivamile, esibhekisela esifiso sokuthi umxhumanisi wasiza ekuhlangabezaneni nezidingo ezithile.
- Ukuphishekela . Isikhalazo esinezimpikiswano ezihloswe ukuholela kumuntu oshintsha ingqondo yakhe, isimo sakhe sengqondo, isifiso. Ekuthonyeni i-psychology, ukukholisa kuncike ekutholeni, ngezidingo zabantu.
- Ukusikisela . Uma kuqhathaniswa nenkolelo, lokhu kungumphumela obhalwe ngaphezulu. I-interlocutor noma iqembu labantu bangase bangaqapheli ukuthi bazama ukuholela esinqumweni noma esenzweni. Ithonya lenziwe ngendlela yokuthi umuntu angazizwa ecindezelekile, futhi ingqondo yakhe ayiphikisi ukufakwa okusha. Umgomo wokusikisela kuwumphumela, uma umuntu efika kwisinqumo esidingekayo ngokwakhe.
- Ukuphoqelela . Lona uhlobo olubi kakhulu lomthelela. Isikhulumi sibeka i-interlocutor ngaphambi kwesidingo sokwenza izenzo ezithile. Le ndlela inokwenzeka lapho isikhulumi sinamathuba athile phezu kwe-interlocutor: isimo, ubudala, amandla, njll. Ukuphoqeleka kuzwakala njengengcindezi eqondile.
- Ukuzithoba . Indaba ngezimfanelo zabo siqu, imigomo, impumelelo, eqinisekisa iziqu kanye nobuchule kwezinye izindawo ezisebenzayo nezasekhaya. Lokhu kusiza umuntu ukuba akwazi ukulalela amagama esipikha.
- Ukutheleleka . Ngokujwayelekile le ndlela isetshenziselwa ngokungazibandakanyi. Umuntu esimweni esimnandi, njengokungathi, uhlasela abantu abakuzungezile abafuna ukwenza okufanayo ukuthola umphumela onjalo ojabulisayo.
- Ukwakha isimo sengqondo esisekelayo . Umuntu angakwazi ukuzinaka ngezindlela ezingaqondile zethonya: indaba engaphenduliyo mayelana nemfanelo yakhe siqu, dumisa indoda, isisize noma silingise.
- Isizathu sokulingisa . Lolu hlobo luthonya lusetshenziswa othisha nabafundisi. Kubalulekile kubazali. Isisekelo salo sibheke ekukhuthazeni ukuthi isithasiselo siphinde senze izenzo ezithile kumuntu ohola.
- Ukuphathwa . Lezi zinhlobo zivamile
psychology amandla namandla. Ingqikithi yayo iqukethe lokho ngezindlela ezicacile zokuphoqa lowo othungelayo ezenzweni ezithile kanye nezifundazwe ukuze afinyelele imigomo yomuntu siqu. - Ukugqugquzela . I-psychology yesisusa nomthelela kusiza ukufeza umphumela wokuwina. I-interlocutor ehola kufanele ibonise zonke izinzuzo nezinzuzo zezenzo nezenzo ezithile. Ukugqugquzela okulungile kuholela ekutheni insizakalo isifiso sokuziphatha ngendlela echazwe ngayo.
Ulwazi lwezinhlobo ze-psychology yethonya lisiza umuntu ukuba afunde ukuqaphela izimo lapho kungathandeki. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lolu lwazi lungasisiza ukuba sikhombise umuntu ngalokho esikudingayo, futhi wenze i-interlocutor ibe ngumlingani kunoma yiluphi udaba.