Igama elithi "ubunikazi benkinga" aluzibophezeli kuncazelo elula. Ukuze sikuchaze, kudingeka sikhumbule izigaba eziyisishiyagalombili zokuthuthukiswa kwe-Ego, echazwe ngu-Eric Erickson futhi emele ukulandelana kwezimpikiswano zengqondo. Enye ingxabano enjalo ephawulekayo komuntu osemncane yilokho okuthiwa ubunikazi ngokumelene nokusabalalisa okubambe iqhaza, futhi inkinga yobunikazi ingavela ngokuqondile endleleni yokuxazulula le mpikiswano.
Inkinga yobunikazi kanye nenkinga yobudala
Ukwenza ubunikazi kuyindlela ekhethekile, lapho ukukhomba okudlule ngakunye kuguqulwa khona ngokuphathelene nezinguquko esikhathini esizayo. Ubunikazi buqala ukuthuthukisa kusukela ebuntwaneni, futhi ngesikhathi sokukhula, ngokuvamile kunenkinga. Kuyaziwa ukuthi emphakathini wentando yeningi inhlekelele ibonakala ngamandla amakhulu kunezinkampani lapho ukuguqulwa kwabadala kuhlotshaniswa nemikhuba ethile ephoqelekile.
Ngokuvamile, abesilisa nabesifazane abasha bafuna ukuxazulula inkinga yokuzikhethela ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ngaleyo ndlela bagweme inkinga. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kuholela ekubambeni ukuthi amandla okuhlala angabonakali kuze kube sekupheleni. Abanye baxazulula le nkinga ngendlela yabo futhi bathulise inkinga isikhathi eside kakhulu, behlala ekungaqiniseki. Kwezinye izimo, ubunikazi obusakazeka bukhula bube bubi, ngenxa yalokho umuntu ekugcineni ukhetha indima ehloniphekile yomphakathi kanye nendima ephikisana nomthetho. Kodwa-ke, lezi zinkinga kuphela, futhi iningi labantu, ngokwemfundiso yenkinga yokungena kuka-Erikson, bakhetha enye yezinto ezibonakalayo zokuthuthukiswa kwazo.
Inkinga yobunikazi bobulili
Inkinga yobunikazi akuyona nje iminyaka yobudala. Ngokwesibonelo, kungase kuvele inkinga yokuzibandakanya ngokobulili, lapho umuntu emi endleleni futhi efuna ukuzikhomba ngenye yeqembu: ukuziphatha ocansini, ubulili noma ubungqingili. Inkinga enjalo ngokuvamile iyenzeka ngesikhathi esencane, kodwa kwezinye izimo kungenzeka kumuntu omdala.
Inkinga yobunikazi
Ubunikazi bobulili ukuzikhethela komuntu mayelana nokuba yingxenye yenhlalo kumhlobo wesilisa noma wesifazane. Ngaphambili kwakukholelwa ukuthi ubulili be-psychic buhambisana njalo nemvelo, kepha empilweni yanamuhla konke akulula. Isibonelo, lapho ubaba ehlala nezingane futhi umama ehola imali, indima yabo yobulili ayifani nendima yendabuko yemvelo.