Kukhona umbono wokuthi amadoda angathandi abesifazane abahlakaniphile. Ngisho nokwesaba kwabo, bayazigwema futhi abafuni ukufana nabo. Yingakho bakhetha amantombazane amabi kabi. Kodwa kuphi ukufika kwabesifazane abahlakaniphile futhi ingabe kunjalo ngempela? Ake sizame ukuthola.
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yabesilisa (cishe u-35%) ibheka ingqondo yowesifazane ibe imfanelo enhle, ngesikhathi esifanayo igcizelela ukuthi omkabo kufanele baqhubeke bezithoba futhi baningi ukulalela umbono womyeni. Uma ucabanga ngakho, ngenxa yezinyathelo ezikhona zamantombazane ezikhona manje, abesifazane ngokuvamile bahlupheka futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bafuna kanjani ukulingana namadoda, lokhu akunakwenzeka ukuba kuzuze noma ubani. Ngokomlando, indoda iyafeza umsebenzi wayo, futhi owesifazane wakhe, ngokumelene nemvelo, akakwazi ukunyathela, njengoba besho. Umzabalazo ohlala njalo wendawo ngaphansi kwelanga uholela ekudumazekeni kwezinhlangothi zombili.
Kungani amadoda esaba abesifazane abahlakaniphile?
Kulula kakhulu - ukwesaba ukungahambisani. Owesifazane ohlakaniphile njalo, yonke indawo nayo yonke into esezingeni: umsebenzi, umndeni, impilo. Kwenzeka nje ukuthi le mfana adinga ukuzizwa ephakeme futhi kucacile ukuthi uma ezwa engakhululekile eduze kwentombazane, akayikuyivumela emhlabeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke, abantu ababuthakathaka kuphela besaba abesifazane abahlakaniphile. Futhi kuphela abesifazane abayiziphukuphuku - njalo bazenze sengathi bahlakaniphile kakhulu. Ingqondo kulokhu akuyona inkomba yokuhlakanipha, kodwa kunokuhlakanipha.
Ungaba kanjani owesifazane ohlakaniphile nohlakaniphile?
Ngokuvamile intombazane ehlakaniphile inomthwalo wemfanelo kakhulu, ayizivumeli ukuba iphumule, ihlale ilawula konke. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ngisho nommeleli wesifazane ohlakaniphile kunabo bonke kufanele abe nobuthakathaka bakhe obuthakathaka: ngezinye izikhathi anikeze imizwelo futhi angenzi njalo ohlelweni. Futhi-ke, uma owesifazane efuna insizwa futhi ekhululekile ndawonye - uzonikeza izimpondo zokuphatha ukuze ziqine izandla zamadoda, futhi ngeke zifune indawo yobukhulu. Intombazane enjalo izobonga indodana yakhe ekhethiweyo, ixoxe naye, ungamangaleli abantu, uzizwe unesilinganiso kukho konke futhi ube nokwanele.
Owesifazane ohlakaniphile, ngaphezu kwakho konke, owesifazane ohlakaniphile. Futhi owesifazane onjalo uyohlale ethola ukuvumelana phakathi kwengqondo nokuphutha.