Ukubandlululwa kungachazwa ngokuthi umehluko ongafaneleki emalungelweni nasemisebenzini yomuntu ngokusekelwe kumbono othile. Ukucwaswa kwabesifazane njengophawu lobulili kusho.
Kwenzeke ngokomlando ukuthi amadoda angabanikazi bokuphila, futhi abesifazane abanalo inkululeko namathuba amaningi kangaka. Muva nje bebelokhu balwela kanzima ukulingana, kodwa baqhubeka bebhekana nezinkinga ezithile. Abaqaphi bamalungelo bahlukanisa izinhlobo zokucwaswa kwabesifazane, njengezenhlalakahle, ezifuywayo nabasebenzi.
Ukubandlululwa komphakathi kwabesifazane
Ukubandlulula ngesisekelo sobulili kubizwa ngokuthi ubulili. Ngokuvamile, kuqondwa njengesizathu esingenabulungisa emphakathini wabesifazane, njengoba leli qembu laqalwa ngabesifazane ukuze bachaze umphakathi wezinzalamizi lapho amadoda anamandla phezu kwabesifazane.
Ngokuvamile lokhu kubangelwa izici zemvelo, njengokuthi amadoda anamandla futhi ahlakaniphile, kodwa izifundo zamuva zobulili ziphikisana nokuhlukana okuningi, isibonelo, ekusebenzeni kobuchopho kanye nokuziphatha okungenangqondo, kunokuba abesifazane bajabule ukusebenzisa, nokuvikela amalungelo.
Kukholelwa ukuthi izinkinga zokucwaswa kwabesifazane ziholela ekunciphiseni isimo sabo sezenhlalakahle, kukhona udlame olumelene nomuntu ngisho nokubeka usongo ekuvikelekeni. Kodwa kungenzeka yini ukukhohlwa ukuthi ukubandlululwa kwabesifazane emhlabeni kusakazwa ngokungalingani? Emphakathini wethu, lawo malungelo nenkululeko abesifazane abangakwazi ukuzivikela ngenxa yokuthi banamandla ngokwemvelo, kusiza ukuvikela umbuso. Abathunyelwa ebuthweni, bakhokhelwa ikhefu lokubeletha, isimiso somthetho sivikela ekusetshenzisweni kwamandla.
Yebo, kukhona ukungafani okuphawulekayo emithwalweni abamele abesilisa abahlukene bobulili abawenzayo empilweni yansuku zonke, kodwa lokhu kungenxa yezimpawu ezivelele kusukela ebuntwaneni. Amantombazane akhuliswa umgcini wezindlu, afundiswa ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini. Amadoda kithi, okokuqala, ama-getters, ngakho-ke ngokuvamile akakwazi ukusula nokugeza izitsha. Noma kunjalo, uma kubonakala sengathi empilweni yakho yomndeni unamalungelo ambalwa, kodwa imithwalo yemithwalo eminingi, akukho okukuvimbela ukubahlukanisa nomlingani wakho nezingane, kodwa kuzomele usebenze kuso.
Ngokombono wabantu bethu, ukubandlululwa kungazibonakalisa emphakathini wohlobo oluhlukile, lwasempumalanga. Kodwa akumelwe sikhohlwe ngamasiko ahlukene kanye nemicabango, esingayithola kuphela
Ukubandlulula ngokumelene nabesifazane emakethe yomsebenzi
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi kwezinye izigaba zomsebenzi, kunzima kakhulu abesifazane ukuba bazibonele ngokwabo kunamadoda. Uma ungacabangi lezo zinto ezikhethekile abesifazane abangenakukwazi ukubhekana nazo ngokomzimba, ukucwaswa kwabesifazane besemsebenzini kungaboniswa ngemali ephansi, ukudala "ingilazi yokugqoka" (isithiyo ekukhuleni komsebenzi) nokuvimbela ukufinyelela kwezinye izindawo ezikhokhelwa kakhulu.