Kwenzeka ukuthi konke kulungile empilweni, kodwa unomuzwa wokuthi kuphenduka umkhuba, njengokungathi uphumule odongeni futhi awukho indawo yokuhamba. Noma ukhuthazelela ukuphazamiseka okuhlukahlukene isikhathi eside, futhi, ngaphandle kokuqonda ngempela, yikuphi, futhi ngolunye usuku usazibuza ukuthi ungashintsha yini impilo yakho. Yiqiniso ungakwazi, kodwa kulo mzuzu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungesabi futhi ungabuyeli phansi. Cabanga, uma imicabango enjalo ikuvakashela, khona-ke, into engekho, awutholi ekugculweni ukwaneliseka okwanele, futhi lesi yisikhathi sokucabanga ngalokho okungashintshwa empilweni ukuze kube ngcono.
Unganquma kanjani ukushintsha impilo yakho?
Okokuqala, kufanele uqaphele ngokucophelela ukuthi uhlala kanjani manje. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi konke kuhlelekile emndenini, uya emsebenzini owuthandayo nsuku zonke, uma empilweni, okuthiwa yi-vent, eletha injabulo futhi ikuvumela ukuba ubuyisele amandla akho. Uma kungenjalo, usuvele wazi ukuthi iyiphi indlela yokuhambisa, kodwa ngokujwayelekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uphendule kanjani, impilo ingashintshwa ukuze ibe ngcono.
Manje udinga ukuphendula umbuzo ngalokho ongakuthandi nokuthi yini ongayishintsha empilweni. Futhi-ke mayelana nokuthi yini okuvimbela ukuthi ungenzi. Zama ukuhlola ngokucophelela amakhono abo ukuvimbela izizathu ezingenalutho, kodwa hhayi ukwenza izenzo ze-rash. Ukwesaba okuncane kungase kuhambisane cishe zonke izinyathelo endleleni eya empilweni entsha, kodwa ngaphandle kwazo akukho lutho oluzoshintsha. Noma kunjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi izenzo zakho zingalimaza umuntu osondelene nabantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungcono ukulinda nabo.
Bhalisela ukusekelwa kwabantu abaseduze, kodwa ungamangazi uma ungayitholi, ngoba izinguquko ozozenza ukuze ushintshe impilo ibe ngcono, zingabheka ingozi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma zishintsha kakhulu. Uma kunjalo, kuzodingeka uhambe phambili, futhi lokhu kuyoba nzima kakhulu uma ungaqiniseki ngokuphelele ngamakhono akho.
Ungaqala kanjani ukushintsha impilo?
Yiqiniso, ngokuqondiswa kulo myalelo:
- beka izinto eziza kuqala, thola ukuthi yini oyolwela manje, okuzokwenza uphumelele;
- ukuqeda okungadingekile, mhlawumbe kukhona amakilasi ukuthi unikeza amandla amaningi, kodwa azilethi izinzuzo, noma abantu, ukuxhumana okuthatha isikhathi kanye namandla;
- wazi kangcono izici zokuphathwa kwesikhathi, ongazisebenzisa isikhathi esiningi ngokulinganisa futhi ufake into entsha futhi ebaluleke kakhulu ngosuku lwakho;
- qiniseka ukwenza ukuhlanza kwentwasahlobo futhi ngaphandle kwesihawu uphonsa konke okubonakala kungadingekile;
- faka indawo yokusebenzela ngokuhlelekile, uqale kusukela etafuleni bese uphela ngekhompyutha, lapho amafayela amaningi angadingekile atholakala khona;
- ukuhlunga kancane kancane izinto, isinqumo saso sesishicilelwe isikhathi eside.
Ngokushesha nje uma ususa imithwalo yempahla eyengeziwe, isixazululo sizovela, ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani impilo yakho nendawo yakho ngemibono emisha.
Izindlela zokushintsha impilo
- Shintsha wena. Wonke owesifazane uyazi ukuthi uzoqala kuphi, ukuguqula impilo - ukuguqula isithombe. Bhalisela i-hairdresser, vakashela i-beautician, ubuyekeze ikhabethe lakho, uthathe iphunga elisha, futhi uqaphele ukuthi ukubuka kwakho kungashintsha kanjani kuphela
ekuphileni, kodwa futhi nesimo sengqondo kwabanye abantu abakuzungezile. - Shintsha isimo. Akunjalo ngempela, kukwanele ukwenza nje ukuhambisa okuncane ekhaya futhi ungeze izinto ezincane ezincane. Okuhle, okuyiqiniso, kuyoba yiholide noma okungenani ngempelasonto endaweni entsha ngokuphelele, nabantu abasha.
- Shintsha imikhuba. Zama ukwenza izinto ongakaze uzenze, kodwa uhlale uphupha. Isibonelo, ubhalisele echibini lokubhukuda noma umdanso, ufunde ukweqa, futhi mhlawumbe uhlale uphupha nge-skydiving? Zama ukuyeka imikhuba emibi futhi uthole okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ewusizo.