Umfundi unenzuzo enkulu kulowo ogcina ukuvula le ncwadi esikoleni. Amabhuku ekuzikhuliseni, okufanele afunde owesifazane, azonikeza ulwazi olubaluleke kakhulu kwengqondo futhi ashintshe impilo ibe ngcono.
Yiziphi izincwadi okufanele zifunde ukuzithuthukisa kumuntu wesifazane?
Amabhuku amahle kakhulu ekuziphatheni okwenziwe ngabesifazane yimisebenzi yabanokwazi kwengqondo. Kuzo, noma ngubani omele ubulili obuhle uzothola izeluleko ekusekeni impilo yakhe, ehlakulele izimfanelo zakhe, ekuphikeleni ukwesaba kwengqondo nezinkimbinkimbi.
- Neil Fiore "Indlela elula yokuqala impilo entsha . " Abantu abaningi banenkinga yokunganaki, okufana nokubeka izinto "ebhokisini elide". Ukugwetshwa kwalokhu akuyona nje imikhuba kanye nezici ezingokwengqondo zomlingisi, kodwa futhi nezinye izimfanelo zomsebenzi wobuchopho. Kule ncwadi, i-psychologist yaseMelika ikhuluma ngalokho okuvimbela umuntu ukuba aqale into entsha futhi ayifinyelele esiphethweni sayo esinengqondo.
- UNicholas Butman "Ungazithanda kanjani emaminithini angu-90 . " Noma yikuphi ukuphupha komuntu wesifazane. Ngesikhathi edala le ncwadi, uNicholas Butman uhlaziye imibhangqwana eminingi ejabulisayo futhi wembula amaphethini wokwakhiwa kwawo. Umsebenzi walo mbhali uzokusiza amakhono we-NLP namasu aphambili okuxhumana, afundise izindlela zokuwina inzalo nesihawu.
- Gary Chapman "Izilimi ezinhlanu zothando . " Izinkinga ebuhlotsheni ziqala ngokungaqondi kahle. Futhi bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazi ukuthi kunezindlela eziningana zokuveza imizwa yabo. Emva kokufunda le ncwadi, lo wesifazane uzofunda ukuqonda kangcono umyeni wakhe futhi axazulule ngempumelelo impikiswano yomndeni.
- UVladimir Levi "Ukukwesaba ukwesaba" . Abesifazane abaningi babesaba ukwesaba kunoma yisiphi isimo esingavamile. Le ncwadi yesazi sengqondo esaziwayo izokutshela ukuthi ukwesaba kungakanani nokuthi kungani kuyadingeka, futhi ikufundise ukuthi ungayigcina kanjani.
- UTina Sylig "Yenza ngokwakho" . UProfesa Stanford University encwadini yakhe akagcini nje ukwabelana ngemfihlakalo yebhizinisi eliphumelelayo, kodwa futhi likufundise ukwandisa ububanzi bokucabanga , uzame njalo into entsha, ushintshe. Le ncwadi ngokuzikhukhumeza kwabesifazane izokusiza ukuba ube umuntu odala, ophumelelayo.