Vumelana, kaningi sicabanga ukuthi kuyoba kuhle kangakanani ukuba siphile, uma konke kuvela ngokwayo, kodwa usuku nosuku sibhekene nobunzima obuhlukahlukene. Basilindile kuzo zonke izinyathelo. Ngisho ukuze uye esitolo esiseduze sesinkwa, sidinga ukuzikhohlisa ukuze siphume embhedeni, sigqoke futhi siphume emakhazeni. Yini esingayisho mayelana nemisebenzi emikhulu ehlobene nomsebenzi noma ukuzithuthukisa. Noma kunjalo, siya phambili, kuphela okukhetha indlela yakhe. Ubude nobujamo bokunyakaza kwawo kuncike kakhulu ekutheni umuntu uphatha kanjani ubunzima, ukuthi uzimisele kangakanani ukunqoba ukuze afeze umgomo. Lokhu kungukuthi, izimfanelo zomuntu ngamunye nezokuzikhethela ziza kudlala, lapho isihloko sethu sizinikele khona.
Amagugu afisa ubuntu nobuntu bawo
Izimfanelo ezinamandla ezifisa umuntu zihlanganisa:
- Ukuxazulula - ikhono lokukhetha ngokushesha umgomo kanye nendlela yokufezekisa, ngisho nasesimweni esinzima sokukhetha, lapho icala lihilela ingozi;
- inhloso - ukunyakaza okuqotho ekufinyeleleni umgomo, ukuzimisela ukunikeza isikhathi esiningi namandla ukuze kufezekiswe;
- ukuphikelela - ikhono lokuletha icala kuze kube sekupheleni, hhayi ukubuyela emuva futhi ungabuyi endleleni yayo eya elula;
- isibindi - ikhono lokunqoba ukudideka nokwesaba, ngisho nokuqwashisa ngokucophelela kwezingozi ezingenzeka;
- ukuzithoba kokuziphatha kokuziphatha kwemikhuba nemithetho ethile;
- ukuzithiba - ukuzithiba, ikhono, ngosizo lokuzikhandla, ukuvimbela izenzo ezivimbela ukuqaphela komkhulelwe;
- ukuzimela - ikhono lokusebenza yedwa, ngaphandle kokubheka abanye, nokuhlola ukuziphatha kwabo, ngokusekelwe ekukholweni kwabo.
Ukwakhiwa kwezici zobuntu eziqinile
I-Psychology yezintando eziqinile zibiza ukuthi aziyena umuntu ongenakho. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi namanje bancike ekutheni ubumnene, obunqunywa yizici zomzimba zesimiso sezinzwa. Indlela abantu abasabela ngayo ezinkimbinkimbi ngezinga elithile elihlobene nesivinini namandla okusebenza kwengqondo, kodwa ngokujwayelekile ukuthuthukiswa kwezimfanelo zobuntu ezinamandla ezibonakalayo kwenzeka enkambweni yomsebenzi kanye nokuthola ulwazi lomuntu siqu.
Izenzo zokuqala zokuzibophezela zingabonwa ngesikhathi esincane, lapho ingane ifunda ukuzilawula, okungukuthi, ayidingi ukwaneliseka kwezidingo ngqo ngesikhathi sokubonakaliswa kwazo. Enkulumweni yokuxhumana nokuqashelwa kwezwe elizungezile, umlingiswa wakhiwa, futhi izimfanelo zokuzikhethela zobuntu zizobe zithatha enye yezindawo ezihamba phambili kwisakhiwo somuntu siqu.
Yenza into ngaphandle kokubandakanya kwentando yakho kuphela ngokuthola isidingo somzimba noma isifiso esinamandla. Luhlobo luni lwentuthuko kuleso simo esingakhuluma ngalo? Kodwa kusukela ebuntwaneni sesiye safundiswa ukuthi ngaphandle kwegama elithi "Ngiyathanda" kukhona igama elithi "kumele", futhi ngokuvamile lokho okwesibini kubaluleke kakhulu kuneyokuqala. Ngakho sithola ikhono lokufunda nokusebenza, ukwenza imisebenzi ethile nsuku zonke, futhi
Ukuxilongwa kobuntu obunamandla obunamandla kungenziwa kokubili kokuhlolisisa kwengqondo, futhi ngosizo lokuhlola izimpumelelo nezindlela zokuphendula kwesifundo. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuhlola izinga lokuthuthukiswa kwazo, izimo eziyinkimbinkimbi zenziwa ngokukhethekile, isibonelo, ukuxoxwa komsebenzi ocindezelayo noma ukuhlolwa okukhethekile.
Ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu kunokwenzeka kuphela ekuqedeni izithiyo. Ngokuvamise, ukuqina kwezimfanelo zomgomo, kuphumelele umsebenzi womsebenzi womuntu, izinga lokuphila nokunethezeka nalo lonke.