Emhlabeni okhuluma isiNgisi, ngokuvamile kuvamile ukubhekana nomfazi, ikakhulukazi uma engowomkhakha ophakeme womphakathi. Ngomqondo ojwayelekile, ngubani owesifazane, sikhuluma ngowesifazane obonakala sengathi uyamkhangisa ngokushesha: amadoda athunjwa, abe yinto engavamile futhi isixwayiso, futhi abesifazane balalela wonke amagama kanye nesenzo, bezama ukungaphuthelwa imininingwane eyodwa.
Imikhuba yalesi sinenekazi
Owesifazane okhulile owakhulela emndenini olula, akulula ukuba yindodakazi , ngoba amantombazane enjalo akhuliswe kusukela ebuntwaneni. Bafundiswa ukuthi bahambe kanjani futhi bakhulume kahle, bahlale bebambisana, bahloniphe izindinganiso, nezindinganiso zokuziphatha nezokuziphatha. Ngokubukeka kowesifazane, ngokuma kwakhe, ephendulela ikhanda futhi ebuka, ungasho nakanjani ukuthi uyindoda noma cha. Ngokuqondene nokubukeka, lo wesifazane akudingeki agqoke ngokusho kwe-fashion squeak yakamuva. Isitayela sezingubo zakhe kunesidingo futhi sivinjelwe, izingubo zingcono futhi zizwakala, zihlanzekile futhi zihlanzekile.
Phakathi kwezimfanelo zomuntu wesifazane kungatholakala:
- Ukugcina isikhathi. Akalimi isikhathi esingaphezu kwemizuzu embalwa, futhi lapho ehlangana, uzoxolisa ngokuphuza.
- Ukuthula nokulingana. Le nkosikazi ngeke ivumeleke ukuba ilahlekelwe ngumsindo wayo, ibe yinto engafanele noma ingabi namanyala kumuntu. Ngolwazi lwakhe alukho amazwi ahlukumezayo, kodwa uyakwazi ukucacisa ngokucacile imicabango yakhe ku-interlocutor futhi ngaphandle kwabo.
- Isihlonipho. Mhlawumbe, lena yinto yokuqala ehlukanisa owesifazane wangempela.
- Ukukhalipha, ukuzithoba kanye nesizotha.
- Ukungabi nalusizo nokuhleleka, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo owesifazane onjalo ngeke ahlasele ekuzideleleni nasekuziqhenyeni.
Lezi yizimpawu ezihlukanisa owesifazane weqiniso. Yiqiniso, kunezimbalwa emhlabeni wonke wanamuhla, ngoba namuhla kungokwesiko ukuhamba ngaphezulu kwamakhanda, ubonise ingcebo yakho yokubonisa futhi uziqhayise ngamaphuzu akho, ngezinye izikhathi awufaneleki.
Ukuziphatha kwendoda yangempela
Ukuziphatha kwalona wesifazane kuyisibonelo. Ukhuluma ngokuthula, engafuni ukuzinaka yena ngokwakhe, kodwa uveza umphumela ohlukile: wonke umuntu uzama ukulalela amazwi akhe, njengokungathi awela ngaphansi kwemilingo yenhle yakhe, eyakhiwe ngamakhulu ama-nuances ahluke kakhulu - ukwelashwa okuhloniphekile nobungane kuwo wonke umuntu, ubuhle, umusa, ubuqotho nokuthembeka.
Le nkosikazi ayiguquki emithethweni yokuziphatha emphakathini. Ngokuhlakanipha uyamukela izivakashi futhi angakwazi ukuxhumana nanoma ubani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yinkosi ngokwakhe noma isisebenzi esilula. Ngeke abeke umuntu esimweni esibucayi, angeke akhubeke futhi angayikuthuka, ahlakaze amahemuhemu ngomunye umuntu.