Isiyalo sangaphakathi

Njengoba wazi, uma umuntu enakho konke ngokuhlelekile ekhanda lakhe, khona-ke empilweni uzoba ngcono. Ukuba nomthwalo wemfanelo kuwe nakwabanye, ukukwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakho nemizwelo, ukwazi ukuvumelanisa nezwe eliguqukayo kusho ukuthola isiyalo sangaphakathi. Umuntu onesiyalo sangaphakathi unenzuzo ngaphezu kwabanye abantu, futhi kuzo zonke izigaba zempilo yakhe - umsebenzi, umndeni, idumela, njll. Ihlelekile futhi iqoqwe, kaningi kubantu abanjalo, kuhlale kuwukucaca "uhlelo lokusebenza" futhi abasoze balahlekelwa okufakiwe kwidayari yabo. Zama ngokwakho, qala isimiso nsuku zonke bese uhlela zonke izindaba zakho. Uzobona, uzophatha konke noma uphathe okubaluleke kakhulu. Akusebenzi? Khona-ke kunengqondo ukusebenzela indlela yokuthuthukisa ukuzithiba.

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Isiyalo sokuqaphela noma ukuzithiba kusho ukuzibophezela kwakho okuphelele nokuzilawula. Ukuthuthukiswa kokuzijezisa kumele kuqala kube yinjongo eyaziwayo, kubalulekile ukwenza isinqumo nokungashintshi. Isiyalo sangaphakathi sivumela umuntu ukuba athuthukise amandla akhe, asebenze ezinkingeni zakhe, anqobe ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki.

Ngokuqondene nendlela yokufunda ukuzithiba, indlela yokuthuthukisa ukuzithiba, ngakho konke kuqala ngezinto ezincane. Okokuqala, zijwayele ukuvuka nsuku zonke ngesikhathi esifanayo. Akunandaba ukuthi usuku luvuliwe noma usuku lokusebenza, udinga ukulandela isimiso "sezinsuku ezingu-21". Ngokwezibalo zengqondo, le ndlela isekelwe ukuthi noma yimuphi umkhuba usungulwa ezinsukwini ezingu-21. Uma ngalesi sikhathi, usuku ngalunye enza into efanayo, khona-ke lo msebenzi uzoba umkhuba wakho. Uma kwenzeka "ukwehluleka ohlelweni," qala futhi. Khumbula, uma unquma ukwenza ukuzithiba, yiba nzima, ungazami ukukhohlisa. Uma kungenjalo, ubani owenza okubi nakakhulu?

Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukuhlela usuku lwakho, ngakho qiniseka ukuthenga idayari. Bhala phansi kusihlwa yonke ibhizinisi elizayo lekusasa, kuqala ngokubaluleke kakhulu.

Yiba nesibopho kumacala ahleliwe nesikhathi sakho, ngoba isikhathi siyisisetshenziswa esibaluleke kakhulu. Inhlanhla!