Umuntu onemigomo yokuphila ngumuntu obambelela ezimisweni nemithetho yena ngokwakhe eyamukele. Umuntu oqaphelayo uyamukela izimiso nezimiso ezibalulekile ezimqondisayo, zikhonza njengenhloko yangaphakathi, kodwa ungapheli ngokweqile.
Ukukhetha izimiso zokuphila
Landela izimiso zokuphila - ukukhetha abantu abaqinile asetshenziselwa ukuqondiswa ngesizathu, kunokuzizwa nemikhuba. Abantu benkolo bafeza imiyalo yemigomo yokuphila esemqoka. Abanye abaqeqeshi bezengqondo, ngokwesibonelo, benqaba ukusebenza nezinkampani ezikhiqiza utshwala nogwayi, futhi abaculi bavame ukwenqaba ukukhuluma ngisho nangomvuzo ophakeme kakhulu emazweni lapho umbuso ocindezelayo wamukelwa khona.
Emphakathini wanamuhla, izimiso zokuphila nezindinganiso empeleni ngokuvamile kubonakala sengathi yizingqikithi kunokuba kube yindinganiso. Kulesi simo, umuntu ubheka izimiso zokuphila kuphela uma kunenzuzo, kwezinye izimo uyaziguqula noma azilahle. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, intombazane ingakwazi "ukugwema ukukhuluma nomfana," kepha uma ingashintsha indlela yakhe yokuzizwa ngayo, uzokhohlwa ngokushesha ngesinqumo sakhe.
Ukusebenzisa le migomo yaba lula ngokwengeziwe, ubafake njengezinhloso. Isibonelo, intombazane akufanele ifuthe ukunquma "kusukela esimisweni engizokukhuluma". Cabanga ukuthi ulungele yini ukuhlukanisa ubuhlobo ngenxa yenkinga. Uma kungenjalo, ukulungele yini ukubekezelela isimo sengqondo esinjalo. Thatha izinqumo ngokusekelwe ezimpendulo zakho - linda ukuxolisa, ingxenye noma ukuyeka ukulalela ukungaphumeleli komnumzane.
Izimiso zokuphila eziyisisekelo zomuntu ohlakaniphile
Abantu abahlakaniphileyo ekusetshenzisweni kwezimiso zokuphila baqondiswa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, bese bewasebenzisa ekupheleni kokuphila. Enye yalezi zimiso ukulawula imicabango. Izenzo zakho nezenzo zakho ukuqhubeka kwemicabango yakho. Uma udala impilo ejabulisayo ekhanda lakho, ungabona lezi zinto empeleni.
Isimiso esibalulekile esilandelayo sabantu abahlakaniphile inhlonipho. Zihloniphe wena nabanye. Kulesi simo, uzophathwa ngokuqondisisa nokunakwa. Ukuhlonipha kuyasiza futhi ukwakha ubungane, ngaphandle kwalokho okungenakwenzeka ukuba umuntu ojabulayo. Ukuba umngane weqiniso ukusekela, ukuqonda, ukwabelana ngenjabulo nosizi.
Enye yezimiso ezibalulekile zabantu abahlakaniphile ukuhlanganyela nabanye okuhle kuphela. Ngokunikeza okuthile, uyithola ngokubuyisela. Uma ubeka injabulo nothando, bayobuya kuwe izikhathi eziyikhulu.
Umgomo wokuphila wabantu abanothando ngempela ukunikeza inkululeko. Ungagcini inkululeko yemicabango, izenzo, izinkolelo kanye nokukhetha komunye umuntu. Futhi uma ehlala nawe - lokhu kuyithando langempela.
Izimiso zokuphila zabantu abakhulu
Abantu abaningi banesithakazelo emicabangweni nasezimisweni zokuphila zabantu abakhulu abanemfihlo yabo yokuphumelela. Ngokwesibonelo, umlobi odumile waseRussia uLeon Tolstoy wenza imibandela yakhe yokuphila kakade esemusha. Futhi zisasebenza kulabo abafuna ukufeza ukuchuma nokuvumelana kwangaphakathi. Nazi ezinye zezimiso zabo:
- nsuku zonke ekuseni kudingeka uhlele izinto zosuku bese ulandela lolu hlelo;
- ukulala kufanele kube mncane ngangokunokwenzeka;
- ukugula nenkinga kufanele kubekezelelwe ngaphandle kokukhononda;
- icala kumele ligcwaliswe;
- Awunandaba nokuvuma abantu ongabazi noma abahloniphayo;
- Ungasebenzisi imali emanzini;
- isimo esibi nakakhulu, umsebenzi omningi.
Izimiso zakhe zokuhlakanipha ezihlakaniphile ziyaziwa futhi umcwaningi waseChina uCucucius:
- abangani bakho ukuzindla, abe abangane kuphela nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo;
- Kulula ukuzonda kunokuthanda;
- ukuphumelela kwebhizinisi kuncike kakhulu ekulungiseni kwangaphambili;
- amaphutha iyisifundo esingcono kakhulu sokuphila;
- khumbula imiphumela ye-intemperance futhi ugcine ukuqina kwakho;
- Akuyona nje imigomo ebalulekile, kodwa futhi nezindlela zokuzifeza;
- Udinga ukufundela kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabanye;
- wonke amabhizinisi kufanele anikezwe wonke amathuba.