Ngokuqinisekile ebuntwaneni bakho ube nezenzakalo ezibonakala ziyesabekayo kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi, okungenzeka kwenzeke kuphela. Futhi okhumbula ngalo namuhla ngokumomotheka. Noma ungakhumbuli nhlobo. Kungani ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukuba siphonse ezinye izenzakalo? Kungani ezinye izinkumbulo zibuhlungu kangaka. Futhi bayasihlupha, ngezinye izikhathi iminyaka. Indlela yokukhohlwa izikhalazo ezedlule, amaphutha, ubudlelwane obungapheli - sizokhuluma ngalokhu namuhla.
Yiqiniso, ukuphindaphinda njalo "Ngifuna ukukhohlwa okwedlule," akunakwenzeka ukuthi uphumelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akudingeki ukhohlwe okuthile okwenza ukuphila kube lula. Emva kwakho konke, ukhumbule izinto eziningi ezinzima namuhla. Kungani? Ngoba okwedlule akumele kubakhohlwe, kodwa wamukelwa. Shintsha isimo sayo sengqondo kuso, sishiye lapho sasikhona, okungukuthi. esikhathini esedlule.
Eqinisweni, kuzwakale kulula, kodwa umkhuba ubonisa ukuthi abaningi bethu abakwazi ukubhekana ngaphandle kwamasu akhethekile. Ake sithole ukuthi unganciphisa kanjani ubuhlungu bokulahlekelwa.
Ithiphu # 1, lapho uzofunda khona ukukhohlwa esidlule esibi ngokuyibuka izikhathi eziningana
Le ndlela ifanele kubantu abadala, ngombono omuhle. Ngosizo lwaso, ungakhohlwa kokubili izikhalo ezedlule namaphutha akho:
- thola isikhathi nendawo okungekho ozokuphazamisa;
- hlala kahle, phumula. Ake ucabange ungumuntu ongaphandle kumabhayisikobho. Zama ukususa engqondweni yakho noma yimiphi imizwelo, kuhle, ngaphandle kwesithakazelo esibuthakathaka: lokhu kuzoboniswa manje;
- khumbula umcimbi okudingeka uguqule isimo sakho sengqondo;
- ukupheqa, njengokungathi isenzo sonke sadutshulwa kwikhamera, isb. uzibona wena nakho konke okwenzekayo ngaphandle;
- isimo esibalulekile: ifilimu yakho kufanele ibe mnyama futhi imhlophe futhi ingenomsindo. Esikhundleni salokho, umculo omnandi nezihloko, njenge, ngokwesibonelo, kuma-comedies no-Charlie Chaplin;
- ungakhohlwa ukufaka ababukeli bokuhleka;
- Ngezikhathi ezithile, buyisela emuva okwenzekayo emuva. Hlaka, uma ngokungazelelwe iba yinto engafanelekile, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungumboni ongaphandle. Futhi ungaba yiqhinga;
- Pheqa i-movie kuze kube yilapho isithombe siyeka ukwethusa.
Le ndlela isisiza ukususa ukwesaba nokungahambi kahle ezinkumbulo. Uvele ulungise kancane.
Inombolo yeBhodi 2, lapho ufunda khona ukuthi izinkumbulo ezimbi zingabeka ngezitini
Ake sikhohlwe esidlule, sibeke izenzakalo ezinhle? Cabanga ukuthi konke okukwenzeka empilweni yakho kubhalwe ngezitini. Inkumbulo engalungile ingomunye wabo. Indlela yokukhohlwa uthando oludlule, uma uhlala ekhaya ngaso sonke isikhathi, ungenzi lutho futhi udabuke. Yiba nomthelela: zibeke zonke izinsuku ezikhanyayo nezijabulisayo. Uyazi ukuthi akusiyo nje ukuthi isimo sengqondo esihle senza ukumomotheka? Le ndlela nayo isebenza ngendlela ehlukile. Smile kaningi, futhi isimo sakho sithuthuke. Bhalisela izifundo zezilimi zangaphandle noma, isibonelo, i-tango yase-Argentina. Isikhathi esincane onakho sokukhumbula, ngokushesha sizobe sinyamalale ngaphansi kocansi lwezitini ezijabulisayo zentsha yakho, ngokungangabazeki, impilo engcono.
Ithiphu # 3. Ake sithi izinkumbulo ezimbi ... ngiyabonga
Mhlawumbe, lokhu ngeke kube lula, kodwa le ndlela ihlobene ngqo nokuqaphela umthwalo wemfanelo.