Ukuqaphela kuyindlela ephakeme kunazo zonke imithetho yezwe elizungezile nelingaphakathi, ngenxa yalokho okuba khona ukuguqula iqiniso elizungezile.
Ukuqaphela njengendlela ephakeme kunazo zonke ye-psyche kubumba izinhloso zomsebenzi obalulekile womuntu ngamunye, ukuzakhela ngengqondo, kubonelela imiphumela, kuqinisekiswe ukulawulwa kokuziphatha komuntu.
Umthetho oyinhloko wokuqonda okuphakeme
Indlela eya ekukhuleni okuphezulu iqala ngokuqonda ngokugcwele ukubaluleka komthetho olandelayo: ngaphandle kwemibandela, thanda wonke umuntu - kuhlanganise nawe. Lo mthetho uzokusiza ukubona ubuhle kuwe nakwabanye abantu. Eqinisweni, ukuqonda okuphakeme kunokwemvelo kumuntu ngokwemvelo uqobo, kodwa izingcindezi zendlela yokuphila yanamuhla kanye nomsindo othakazelisayo wezingqondo azivumeli ukuba aziveze ngokugcwele.
Kukhona izinhlobo eziphakeme zokuqaphela, okufanele umuntu alwele. Kunamafomu aphezulu okucabanga okuchazwe ngokucacile futhi okucacisiwe, ukuhlushwa kuqondiswa kahle futhi kubanjwe, imizwelo kanye namandla angaphakathi alawulwa, kuyilapho ubunye nomhlaba kutholakala.
Ukuqonda okuphakeme komuntu kuhlanganisa nokuqonda ukubandakanyeka kwakhe emsebenzini omkhulu wokudala. Isici esivelele sabantu abaqaphelayo inkululeko nokulahlwa kwemibono emisiwe emphakathini. Abantu abanjalo bayaqaphela ukuthi bayajabula ngokwabo, ngoba lokhu akulutho, futhi akukho okudingekayo.
Ukuqaphela njengendlela ephakeme kakhulu yokuzindla kwengqondo kunomqondo omkhulu ngokuqondene nomuntu ezweni elikuzungezile kanye nolwazi lwakhe lomphakathi. Kuyinto evumela ukuthi uhlele futhi uhlanganyele emisebenzini ethize, ukuzama nokuthuthukisa ezindaweni ezithile.
Ukuqaphela njengezinga eliphakeme kakhulu le-psyche yizinga eliphakeme lokuzindla kweqiniso, okuthola ukubonakaliswa kwalo ikhono lomuntu onenhloso enkulu ekuboneni izwe elikuzungezile, njengamanje nasesikhathini esedlule, ngesineke sokwenza izinqumo.
Ukuthuthukiswa kokwazi
Izinga eliphakeme lokuqwashisa lingasungulwa ngomsebenzi oqhubekayo kuwe. Enye indlela enjalo ukuzindla . Kuzokusiza ukuba uqede ingqondo futhi ulalele izwi elingaphakathi. Ukuthuthukiswa kokuqwashisa kuhilela ukwandisa umthwalo wemfanelo nokuqwashisa isenzo ngasinye, isinqumo kanye nokukhetha.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umuntu osesimweni esiphakeme sokuqaphela, uphuma emzimbeni jikelele, ngisho noma engasho lutho. Umuntu angaba ngcono, kodwa, okokuqala, kufanele yena ngokwakhe azifunele.