Cishe ucabanga ukuthi uma kungenjalo ngenxa yamahloni okuzalwa, konke okusemandleni akho bekuyobe kuthuthukile ngokuhlukile. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngokuvamile ngenxa yokuthi awuqiniseki ukuveza umbono wakho, ungavikeli ilungelo lakho, ungangeni ekuzijwayeleni nabantu abathakazelisayo. Futhi ukucabanga okude futhi okudabukisayo ukuthi ngabe ubukeka kahle kangakanani ngesimo esingekho, uma kungenjalo ngamahloni , kubangele ukuthi ulahlekelwa amathuba amaningi ekudluleleni ... Yebo, yisikhathi ngempela sokuba ucabange ngendlela yokuqeda amahloni.
Silinganisa amathuba
Okokuqala, udinga ukuthola iphepha kanye nepeni, uhlelo lwethu lwesenzo ukuthi singabhekana kanjani nohlazo luqukethe umsebenzi obhaliwe obuningi.
Chaza lezo zimo uma udangele usulu futhi kuyini imbangela yayo:
- ukubonakala kwakho;
- izwi lakho;
- ulwazi lwakho;
- ukungabaza ngekhono lemibono yabo.
Ngamahloni akho, abantu abangaphandle abasoze balahlwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi "badla" futhi "bangacabangi" babonakala kuwe. Isizathu singaphakathi kwakho.
Sibhala ukuqinisekiswa, esizofunda izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, ngokuzwakalayo nangokuzethemba:
- Ngingakwazi ukubhekana kalula nemigomo yami, izifiso zami, amaphupho, ukuziqaphela;
- Ngiyavuma;
- Ngiphumelele;
- Ngimnandi;
- Ngilula ekukhulumisaneni;
- Ngiyaqiniseka ngami.
Ukuqinisekiswa kumele kufane nalokho okuhlosayo. Kufanele benze njengesiphakamiso somuntu siqu.
Dala ilebula lakho siqu
Amahloni namahloni kubangela ukuthi abantu abakwazi ukwazisa amakhono akho, amakhono akho, amakhono ngokugcwele. Uvele uzifihle futhi ungawabonisi ngenxa yamahloni. Ngakho-ke, ukuze udale "isinqamuleli" esihle emakhanda abanye yenza lokhu okulandelayo:
- njalo ugcine umhlane wakho uqondile, amahlombe asakaze;
- izwi lakho akufanele lithuthumele, khuluma kancane;
- Bheka ubuso no-interlocutor;
- Bonisa amandla akho;
- sebenze kubuthakathaka.
Ngokuqondene nezwi, ukuma nokubuka - kufanele usebenzise la makghono ekhaya ngaphambi kwesibuko. Amandla akho azoqala ukubonakalisa ngokwemvelo, ngokushesha nje lapho uqonda izwi, ubheka, ukubeka phambili , futhi ngaphezu kwamaminithi okudingeka usebenze. Uma ungathandi umdwebo wakho - lungisa, noma uzithobe futhi uzithande ukuthi ungubani. Uma ungathandi isitayela sakho - silungise, ukulungiswa kwekhanda - yenza, hamba - funda ukuhamba ngendlela oyithandayo. Kulula kakhulu ukukhononda mayelana namahloni nokuhluleka kwakho kunokuzilungisa ngomsebenzi wakho.