Amakhono ayisisekelo wengane 4 izinyanga
Phakathi nezinyanga zokuqala, abazali bayakwazi ukuhileleka kwisigqi esisha sokuphila, ukuphila kwansuku zonke kuba kuhlelwe kakhulu, futhi umama osemusha usukwazi ukuhlela usuku lwakhe. Ngisho ne-karapuz encane kakade inamakhono amaningi angabhekwa njengezimpumelelo zakhe zokuqala. Kufanele ukuthola ukuthi yini ingane okufanele iyenze ezinyangeni ezingu-4:
- usana olulele ngemuva luphakamisa ikhanda namahlombe, njengokungathi uzama ukuhlala phansi;
- izingane ziphuma emilenzeni yazo, zilele emathunjini abo, njengokungathi zizama ukunqanda;
- Ngalesi sikhathi, i-carapace ivuliwe ngemuva nangemuva;
- Izingane ziyabona abantu abavame ukubonwa, ikakhulukazi kuzo zonke izilinganiso eziya kumama;
- uqala ukubiza imisindo ethile;
- unesithakazelo emzimbeni wakhe, isibonelo, ubheka noma abuyele izandla zakhe emlonyeni wakhe;
- uthatha ithoyizi elilenga lezintshisekelo kuye;
- eduze ngezwi, ubahlukanisa nabantu abangabazi;
- uphendukela egameni.
Ingane isivele ibhekene nokumesaba, intukuthelo, injabulo, ukumangala. Usevele akwazi ukusungula ubudlelwane obangela umphumela. Ngakho, lapho umntwana ebona isifuba sikamama, ubheke phambili ekudleni.
Ezinyangeni ezine umntwana uyamamatheka ngokuhle, ehleka, futhi lapho ebona izihlobo kubonisa ukuthi kuyinkimbinkimbi yezithombe (uyajabula, uhambisa izandla nezinyawo zakhe ngenkuthalo).
Yini okufanele ixwayise?
Njengoba kunikezwa ukuthi zonke izinsana ziyingqayizivele, kuyinto evamile uma i-crumb ithola amakhono ambalwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kodwa kwezinye izimo cishe kuningi ukufuna iseluleko sikadokotela. Lokhu kuyadingeka uma umama eqaphela ukuthi ingane ayenzi lokhu okulandelayo ezinyangeni ezingu-4:
- ayibonisi imizwelo ebhekisela kwabanye abantu;
- Ungathathi izinto;
Ungaguquki esiswini sakho, ulele emhlane wakho; - Uma udonsa izingxube zokulala amanga ngemuva, ikhanda lakhe libuyele emuva.
Abanye omama banesithakazelo kulokho ingane engakafiki ngaphambi kwezinyanga ezine, ngoba ukuthuthukiswa kwalezi zingane kuhlukile. Konke kuncike esikhathini lapho umntwana ezalwa khona, isisindo sakhe nokuphakama kokuzalwa. I-karapuz izokwehla ngemuva kwamazinga futhi abazali akufanele bakhathazeke ngalokhu, kodwa uma unina enemibuzo nokukhathazeka, kungcono ukubonana nodokotela.