Indlela yokunciphisa ingane ekuguleni kokuhamba

Akukho ukuvumelana ngokusemandleni ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukudumaza ingane. Ukusondelana nomama kuyisidingo esingokwemvelo kwanoma yimuphi umntwana, ikakhulukazi usana olusanda kuzalwa. Futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso futhi kuyimvelo ngempela. Phela, umama wayegqoka ngaphansi kwenhliziyo yami izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye, futhi manje, ngokushaya umhlaba ongaziwa futhi ongaqondakali, omncane uzizwa evikelekile kuphela ezandleni zikaMama. Ingane ithola ukushaya kwenhliziyo, isigqi esivamile samanyathelo akhe bese iyancipha.

Ngalesi sikhathi, bambalwa abantu abakucabange ukuthi ngabe udinga ukuzamazama yini ingane, bese-ke ukuthi ungakhubaza kanjani ingane ukuba iphenduke. Kwenzeka ngokwayo, kungokwemvelo kumama osemusha, njalo ufuna ukusondelana nengane yakhe esanda kuzalwa, alele futhi avuke eduze kwakhe, ukubona ukumomotheka kwakhe kuqala.

Kuye kwafakazelwa ngokwesayensi ukuthi izinyanga zokuqala zokuphila ezisetshenziswe ngumntwana ngokusondelana nonina kunomthelela omuhle kunazo zonke ebuhlotsheni obuseduze.

Kodwa manje umntwana usekhulile kancane futhi kuba nzima kumama ukuwugcina njalo ekuphatheni. Futhi ingane, ejwayele ukufudumala nokududuza kwezandla zikamama, iqala ukuphikisana nalezi zinto ezintsha.

Amathiphu ambalwa

Kunezindlela eziningana zokubeka ingane ukuba ilale ngaphandle kokugula okuhambayo. Ngenkathi ingane ingaphenduki unyaka owodwa ubudala, empeleni akulula ukuguqula ukugula okuhambayo, into esemqoka ukubekezela. Uma ukondla kule plan kulula, ngoba ngokuvamile izinyanga ezinganeni ezinhlanu zilala ngesikhathi sokudla.

Kodwa ngokudla okufakelwayo, uma ingxube idakiwe ngokushesha, yebo, ingane ayinaso isikhathi sokulala. Beka esibukweni. Ngomntwana omncane kakhulu, ungakha into efana nesidleke sesembatho esithambile, esizokhumbuza ukwamukelwa komama okufudumele. Ngisho noma emva kwalokho ingane ne-sips ezimbalwa, akukho lutho olubi oluyokwenzeka kuye. Isikhathi esingaphezu kwesigamu sehora, uyalala.

Uma umntwana esekhulile, uvuka esitokisini, futhi akunakwenzeka ukupakisha, bese umnika isikhathi ukuze alele yena eyedwa. Mthande ubusuku obuhle, bese ushiya ekamelweni, ushiye ukukhanya ebusuku. Kukhona ithuba lokuthi, uma sesithambekele kancane kancane, ingane ilele, ingase ikhale kancane. Uma uzwa ukukhala imizuzu engu-5, ngena ekamelweni, ulibuyise futhi, vala ngengubo uphinde uphinde uphume. Futhi njalo izikhathi eziningana ekupheleni kokuphumelela. Lena yindlela yomhlengikazi waseMelika uBenjamin Spock, owaziwayo ekhulwini leminyaka elidlule. It isekelwe kuphela ekuvimbeleni abazali.

Akuyona into engafanele ukuthenga ingane ithoyizi elithambile lapho ingane izozihlanganisa khona iphupho. Kuyasiza futhi ukuza nomkhuba wakho wokulala. Kungaba ukugeza nokusebenzisa amafutha aphunga amafutha, ukugqoka ama-pajama akho owathandayo, ukufunda amathekisthi ebusuku. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi akuzona zonke izingane eziboniswa ukugeza ngaphambi kokulala. Abanye, esikhundleni sokukhalisa, baxoshwa kakhulu, futhi mhlawumbe kunengqondo ukudlulisela ukugeza esikhathini sokuqala sosuku.

Uma, noma kunjalo, ingane yakho ayifuni ukulala ngaphandle kokugula okuhambayo, zama okungenani kancane ukukhulula izandla zabo. Thatha isihlalo sabakhubazekile noma ubhekwe ngamasondo. Abazali abaningi banesithakazelo kulo mbuzo: kungenzeka yini ukugibela ingane ngokuqinile. Impendulo yabantwana bezingane ayinakuqonda - akunakwenzeka. Ngenxa yokuthi i-vertebrae yomlomo wesibeletho yengane isabuthakathaka futhi isuke ifinyezekile, futhi ukuthuthumela okuqinile nokunyakaza okukhaliphile ungamlimaza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukugula okunamandla kungabangela ukuncintisana okuncane.

Umbuzo wokuthi ungayigubha kanjani ingane kahle, wonke umuntu uyazikhethela, kuye ngokuthandwa kwengane. Kodwa kancane kancane kusadingeka ukuvikela izithakazelo zakho, futhi ungenzi konke ukujabulisa ingane. Phela, ukuncibilika ekuguleni okuhambayo kuyisikhathi semfundo. Ingane kusukela kumncane kakhulu kufanele iqonde ukuthi ubani ophetheyo.