Ukucindezela ukucindezeleka kuyinkimbinkimbi yobuntu obusiza ekuthwaleni ubuhlakani, ngokuzivocavoca, ngokomzwelo nanoma yikuphi ukucindezeleka ngaphandle kwemiphumela eyingozi emisebenzini evamile noma enhlalakahle. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, isibonakaliso esikhulu sokumelana nokucindezeleka kuvame ukukhuluma ngobunzima, obungathonya impilo yomuntu ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Uma ungazi ukuthi lesi sibalo siphezulu kangakanani, kufanelekile ukudlulisa ukuhlolwa kokunquma ukumelana nokucindezeleka, okuzokuvumela ukuba uqonde ukuthi isifo sakho sengqondo siqinile kangakanani.
Isivivinyo sokumelana nokucindezeleka
Indlela yokuthola ukumelana nokucindezeleka kusivumela ukuba siqonde. Ingabe ukulungele imisebenzi ehlobene nokucindezeleka, futhi awudingi ukuthatha izinyathelo zokuyithuthukisa (lokhu kufinyelelwa ekufundeni, njll). Esikhathini sethu, ukuhlolwa kokumelana nokucindezeleka kuvame ukuqhutshwa lapho kuqasha, ngoba izici eziningi zidinga izinga eliphakeme lokuphazamiseka kwemizwa.
Sinikeza ukuxilongwa okulula kokumelana nokucindezeleka, okuzoveza izinga lakho lokucasula kanye nokukwazi ukuzithiba. Kulokhu, unikezwa izimpendulo ezintathu ezifanayo kunoma yimuphi umbuzo:
- "Yebo, ngokuqinisekile" - amaphuzu amathathu;
- "Yebo, kodwa hhayi kakhulu" - 1;
- "Cha, akukho mcimbi" - 0.
Ekupheleni kwezimpendulo kufingqa amaphuzu. Into eyinhloko - qiniseka wena ngokwakho, ngoba lokhu kuyisivivinyo sokuzihlonipha ukucindezeleka kokucindezeleka, futhi ukwethembeka kwakho kulokhu kubaluleke kakhulu.
Imibuzo:
- Ingabe ucasulwa yikhasi elinyathelisiwe ephephandabeni lapho uphrinta isihloko esithakazelisayo?
- Ingabe ukungathandeki kowesifazane "eminyakeni", okugqoke njengendodakazi encane?
- Awunakukhathazeka ngokusondelana kwe-interlocutor yakho phakathi kwengxoxo?
- Ingabe owesifazane ophuza endaweni yomphakathi noma emgwaqweni uyakucasula? Ingabe umuntu okhwehlela ekuqondeni wakho uyakucasula?
- Ingabe uzizwa ungathandi lapho umuntu ebona izipikili?
- Ingabe uzizwa uthukuthele uma othile ehleka endaweni?
- Ingabe ugcwele ukunganeliseki lapho umuntu efundisa impilo?
- Ingabe ucasuliwe uma isigamu sakho sesibili siphelile isikhathi eside?
- Uyakhathazeka ngabantu abasendaweni ye-cinema abahlala bezungeza bese bebeka amazwana kule filimu?
- Ingabe ucasuliwe kakhulu lapho utshele indaba yencwadi ohlela ukuyifunda?
- Uyaphambuka ngaphakathi uma unikezwa izinto ezingadingekile?
- Ingabe ucasulwa ngxoxo enkulu noma ukhuluma efonini ezokuthutha zomphakathi?
- Ingabe uzizwa ungazithandi, uzizwa othile unephunga elinamandla lamafutha?
- Ingabe ucasulwa ngumuntu osebenza ngokuzikhandla ngenkathi ingxoxo?
- Ingabe ucasuliwe lapho abantu befaka amazwi angaphandle?
Ukuhlolwa sekuphelile, bala inani lemaphuzu owatholile ngaphambi kokuhlola imiphumela yokumelana nokucindezeleka ekuhlolweni.
- amaphuzu angaphezu kuka-36. Izinga lakho lokumelana nokucindezeleka liphansi, ungabanjwa ngaphandle kwe-rut, noma ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nengxenye engenacala. Okuzungezile kungaphazamisa kalula isimo sakho, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kungaba nzima ukuyibuyisela. Ukwaziswa ukuba ufunde noma yini ukuze ukwandise ukumelana nokucindezeleka, ukuze uthuthukise izinga lokuphila.
- kusuka ku-13 kuya ku-36. Izinga lakho lokumelana nokucindezeleka lilinganiselwe. Ungumuntu ovame ukubhekana nezimo ezicindezelayo, kodwa uma kwenzeka okuthile okubi kakhulu, kungabangela ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa.
- ngaphansi kuka-13 Izinga lakho lokumelana nokucindezeleka liphakeme. Ukuze ukwazi ukuphuma, udinga isenzakalo esibucayi ngempela. Ubekezela kalula izinselele futhi uqotho kwabanye. Into eyinhloko akufanele ukuthi ithathwe ngendlela enjalo yokuziphatha: izihlobo zakho zingayithatha.