Ubunqunu nokukhululwa - yiziphi izinhlobo zemiqondo, zihluke kanjani, futhi zibuhlobo buni, futhi zikhona yini? Indlela umphakathi kanye nobuhlobo phakathi kwabantu abanobulili obuhlukile abaye baqala ngayo namuhla kuye kwabunjwa ngumlando wezwe lonke. Lo mqondo, owakhulume esidlule ukuthi ukungalingani ngokobulili kuvela ekutheni ukuhlukunyezwa kwabesifazane kube yindoda, kuye kwaveza into efana nokukhululwa. Mayelana nalokhu ngokuningiliziwe nokukhuluma.
EFrance
Ukuvela kwenhlangano yabesifazane ukukhululwa ekucindezelweni, noma yikuphi ukuthembela kanye nemingcele evela eFrance elide nelokuzifunela. Ngo-1830, ekuphakameni kweJulayi Revolution, igama elithi "émancipation de la femme" lavela. Phakathi nokuthuthukiswa kokukhululwa, amakilabhu akhethekile abesifazane awakhiwa, lapho abahlanganyeli bezinhlangano bavikela amalungelo abo ezithombeni ezikhethekile eziphrintiwe. Abaholi bendima yabesifazane baze banikeze abesifazane besifazane babo ukugqoka izibopho zamadoda ukuze baqede umehluko wangaphandle wobulili. Ngesenzo esifanayo, abesifazane abathandana nabo bagcina belethe amadoda ngokufutheka okugcwele, okwenyusa ukwemukelwa kwesinqumo sokunqothula abesifazane abanelungelo lokuba nemihlangano yabo. Ngokushesha, amaqembu abesifazane avalwa. Kubonakala sengathi kwakudingekile ukuzincipha, kodwa amaFulentshi anquma ukuqhubeka nale mpi engalingani.
Ngemuva kokuba abesifazane banikwe inkululeko futhi "ilungelo lokuvota" bafuna ukulingana okugcwele kwamalungelo. Esikhathini esizayo, kungacatshangwa ukuthi ukukhululwa kubeletha umqondo onjalo ngokuthi "ubufazi". Uma inqubo yokukhululwa ihilela ukukhululwa ekucindezelweni nasekuthembekeni, khona-ke ubufazi buyintando yenhlalakahle yezenhlalakahle nezombusazwe onomgomo wokunikeza abesifazane amalungelo agcwele amalungelo. Lona indaba.
I-Russian Federation
Ngokukhamba kwesikhathi, ukunyakaza kwenkululeko namalungelo wesifazane kwahlonipha iRussia ngokuba khona kwayo. Ukuguqulwa kuka-1917 kwaba yisenzakalo esikhulu kakhulu sokukhululwa kwabesifazane baseRussia. Okuhlangenwe nakho komzabalazo weBolshevik kubonisa isibonelo esiphumelelayo sokunqoba ukucindezelwa kwabamele "ucansi" obuthakathaka. Ukuthuthukiswa kwezimboni zomphakathi kwashintsha kakhulu imibono emndenini kanye nokuqaphela abesifazane baseRussia.
Imodeli yezomnotho yasendulo yomndeni yayisekelwe ekuqaleni kokukhiqizwa kwezinzuzo zokusetshenziswa komndeni. Ladies bachitha ukuphila kwabo ngaphakathi endlini. Umphakathi kuphela okudingeka baxoxisane nawo umndeni. Nokho, esikhathini esizayo, imboni yemishini ibhubhisa ngokuphelele ukukhiqizwa komkhiqizo ngamunye, ngaleyo ndlela iphoqele abesifazane ukuba bafune umsebenzi ngaphandle kwekhaya. Lapha baqala ukuqaphela futhi bazizwe lonke izinga lokucindezelwa, elingazange lizwe emndenini. Iqiniso livezwe ngokukhona kohlu oluthile lwamalungelo kunamadoda. Konke lokhu kwenza ukuba balwele ukuvikela izithakazelo zabo. Kufanele kuqashelwe, baphumelela.
Ake sibambe imiphumela
Imiphumela yokukhululwa yomibili ihle futhi ayibi. Ake sithole ukuthi ngabe "sine" noma "silahlekile" kule mpi. Ake siqale ngomunye omuhle:
- lona wesifazane wayeka ukuba "into", indoda engayilahla ngokuqonda kwayo;
- manje sinelungelo lokuthola imfundo ephakeme;
- sivunyelwe ukuba nemibono yethu kanye nelungelo lokuvota;
- isigamu esihle sabantu sinelungelo lokuba nomsebenzi;
- kukhona ithuba lokufinyelela isimo esithile senhlalo.
Manje ngokudabukisayo:
- Amadoda athola ukuthi abesifazane abawutholanga ilungelo labo kodwa umsebenzi wabo wokusebenza, ngakho-ke banquma ukubuyela emuva emithwalweni kanye nezibopho;
- Inkululeko eyinqola namandla abo ababamele ingxenye enhle yesintu yavusa ubuthakathaka bobulili obuhlukile;
- ukubunzima kobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane ngenxa yokuphulwa komgomo wokuhambisana;
- Umsebenzi onzima wawela ngokuphepha ngokumelene namahlombe "aphethwe amandla". Futhi badonsa izingodo, futhi badonsa abalala;
- abesifazane baba izisulu zobufebe, ukulutha izidakamizwa, ukuphuza ngokweqile, kanye nenani lokukhipha isisu landa.
Njengoba wazi, konke kulungile ekulinganiseni. Okunye konke sekuvele "okungahambi kahle". Futhi kwenzeke uma kwenzeka ukukhululwa, ukuhamba kancane kancane.