Ukuzizwa isizungu ngaso sonke isikhathi kwakuyinkinga enkulu emphakathini. Abantu abathandana nombono omubi weqiniso, babona isizungu hhayi njengesibusiso esibusisiwe, kodwa njengesihlungu esikhulu.
Ukuzizwa unesizungu njalo
Ukuphazamiseka kwesizungu kubangelwa ukuthi abantu abakhononda ngakho, ngokuphindaphindiwe kunalokho, abavumi, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, bahlala bezungeza umphakathi. Lena yinkinga yamadolobha namagagasi, kodwa hhayi amadolobha namadolobhana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuzwa wokuzizwa unesizungu uvame ukuhlupha abantu abasha abangenalo umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa noma umsebenzi odla isikhathi. Abantu abasebenzayo, kanye nabantu abadala, bancane amathuba okukhalaza ngesizungu. Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, isizungu sabaningi nje isifiso sokuheha ukunakwa komphakathi kumuntu wakho.
Kubantu abaningi, isizungu asaziwa ngesizathu esisodwa esilula: sisebenza futhi sijabule, sivame ukwandisa imvelo yabo futhi sibonise isithakazelo kubantu, sakha oxhumana nabo abasha. Labo abajwayele ukungabi nesizungu, ngokuvamile bahlukunyezwe kuye, ngoba ngaphandle kokwamukela abantu abathile, bayazibona bodwa, bengathandi ukwandisa ama-horizons ekukhulumisaneni. Abanye abantu, ngaphandle kokukwazi, sebenzisa inkulumo ngokuthi isizungu njengendlela yokuxhaphaza ekhaya: ukukhononda komuntu ngesimo sabo, umuntu unxusa ukuba asize.
Ungasusa kanjani imizwa yesizungu?
Kwabaningi, kulula ukumanzela ngokuzihawukela kunokuba uthathe ukusungulwa kwempilo bese ubeka oxhumana nabo nezwe langaphandle. Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, embuzweni wokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nomuzwa wokuthi unesizungu, okuwukuphela kokukhetha ukukwenza!
Ngokuvamile umuzwa wokuzizwa unesizungu udonsa abantu abanesikhathi esikhulu kakhulu lapho kungekho khona izinto zokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi nokuzilibazisa. Ngakho-ke, isixazululo senkinga "yokunqoba umuzwa wokuzizwa unesizungu" kubo kulele ekuvunyelweni kwezifundo noma nge-insizakalo.
Ngokuvamile umbuzo wokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nemizwa
- ngokuba yedwa, sebenzisa lesi sikhathi ngokuhlakanipha: zizinakekele, ukwakha izinhlelo ezithile zokuzithuthukisa, njll;
- ujabulele ukuzodwa - ubuye ucabange ngefilimu yakho oyintandokazi, ugeze ngamanzi nge-foam noma uvumele okuthile okwakungenakho ngesikhathi;
- sisize abanye - banikeze iseluleko, njll.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uthathe isikhundla sokuphila okusebenzayo futhi uxazulule izinkinga zakho, kunokuthi uthinte nje. Uma ungenabo abangane abanele - thola inkambo noma amakilasi, yiziphi eziningi ezifana nomqondo wakho ezibuthayo. Uma ungenalo uthando olwanele - wazi kangcono kuzo zonke izindlela, kufaka phakathi ku-intanethi.