Nsuku zonke, abantu babhekene nezimo ezihilela ukuthatha isinqumo, ngokuqala ngokukhetha imikhiqizo nokuphela kokukhetha indawo yokutadisha noma umsebenzi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kubantu abaningi lokhu kuyinhlekelele yangempela, ngoba kukhona ukungabaza okuningi nokwesaba ukuthi ukukhetha kuzokwenziwa ngokungalungile. Esimweni esinjalo, ulwazi mayelana nokwenza isinqumo, uma ungabaza, luzobe seluseduze. Sekuyisikhathi eside izazi zezinqondo zinesithakazelo kule ndaba, ngakho zenze amasu ambalwa avumela ukuthi wenze konke okulungile.
Indlela yokwenza isinqumo esifanele empilweni?
Kunezici eziningi ezihlukahlukene ezenza umuntu ahlupheke ngokungangabazi. Isibonelo, abanye abantu ezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi bancike kuphela ekuhlangeneni kwabo kanye nemibono yabo, bengaboni iseluleko esivela ngaphandle, kanti abanye bavame ukwakha ezinye izifiso ezingavumeli ukuba zibone iqiniso.
Amathiphu mayelana nokwenza isinqumo esibalulekile:
- Nweba ububanzi . Ezimweni eziningi, ngaphandle kwempendulo evamile yebo / cha, kunezinombolo eziningi zezinye izixazululo. Ngokwesibonelo, ucabanga ukuthi udinga ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho , kungase kudingeke ukhulume nabaphathi bakho ukulungisa izici ezicasulayo.
- Gwema imizwelo . Ukuthola ukuthi ungenza kanjani isinqumo esinzima, awukwazi ukushiya into engokomzwelo ngaphandle kokunakekelwa, ngoba ngokuvamile ayivumeli umuntu ukuba ahlolisise isimo futhi aqonde isimo salo, okugcina ekuholela ekuthatheni izinqumo ezingalungile. Izazi zengqondo ziphakamisa ezimweni ezinjalo, ukuphendula umbuzo othi: "Ngizozizwa kanjani, uma ngikhetha lokho, emizuzwini emihlanu, izinyanga eziningana noma ngonyaka"
- Sebenzisa ulwazi oluningi ngangokunokwenzeka . Namuhla, ngenxa ye-intanethi, ungathola izimpendulo zanoma yimuphi umbuzo. Abantu abaningi babhala imibono yabo ngemikhiqizo, izinsizakalo, izindawo zokuphumula kanye namabhizinisi abasebenza kuwo.
- Ukulinganisa zonke izinzuzo nezindleko . Izakhamuzi eziningi zengqondo, ezizindla ngendaba yokwenza isinqumo esibalulekile empilweni, zeluleka ukuba zithole ukuqinisekiswa okubonakalayo ngokwenza izinhlu ezimbili. Ngolunye ubhala ubhale imibono nezinzuzo, futhi okwesibili - yini okumele ilahlekelwe kanye nokungaphumeleli okwamanje. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba ubeke phambili phambili futhi ungenzi amaphutha.
- Yiba nesithakazelo emibonweni yabanye . Nakhu kubalulekile ukukhetha umeluleki olungile futhi kungcono ukuxhumana nomuntu okwazi ukukwazi ukwenza lokhu kule ndawo futhi uphumelele. Lokhu kuzosusa ukuziqhenya okwedlulele futhi uthole ukugxeka okwakhiwe .