Mhlawumbe wonke umuntu ukhumbula i-melodrama ethi "Yidla, Thandaza, Uthando," lapho inkanyezi ye-movie uJulia Roberts idlala indima eyinhloko. Umbhalo walo mdwebo wabhalwa ngesisekelo se-bestseller u-Elizabeth Gilbert "Ngithandaza, ngithanda," lapho umlobi echaza khona impilo yakhe ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa nomyeni wakhe wokuqala.
Ukuqashelwa okungalindelekile kuka-Elizabeth
Umlobi waseMelika waseMelika uGilbert oneminyaka engu-47 wayengakaze abonakale ebuhlotsheni nabesifazane ngaphambilini. Wayeseshadile izikhathi ezingu-2, ngakho-ke ukuvuma ngokukhululekile kwemizwa ngomngani wakhe omkhulu uRaya Elias, okwenziwe kamuva nje, wabangele amahloni.
Ekuseni ngo-Septemba 7, ekhasini lakhe le-Facebook, u-Elizabeth wabhala incwadi ka-Elias, esayinela ngala mazwi:
"Mina noRaya sihlangene manje. Sithandana futhi siyajabula ngalokhu. "
Khona-ke ungafunda indaba ukuthi u-Elizabeth noRaya bangabangane isikhathi eside. Ngoba uGilbert Elias ubelokhu "oyisibonelo esikhulu" sezincwadi zakhe, nomuntu angathembela nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Ngemuva kokuthola ukuthi uRai unomdlavuza we-pancreatic nesifo somdlavuza wesibindi, u-Elizabeth waphawula ubungane babo, eqaphela ukuthi uyamthanda umngane wakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umlayezo womlobi ungathola imigqa enjalo:
"Awukwazi ukuthi kwenzekani engqondweni nasenhliziyweni yami lapho ngizwa lokhu kutholakala okubi kakhulu. Yonke iminyaka esiyazi ngayo, okwesikhashana eshaywa ngamehlo ami. Ngaqaphela ukuthi angisenaso isikhathi sokuzenza ngathi. Konke kwavela endaweni, futhi ngabona ukuthi angithandi nje uRaya njengomngane wami, kodwa ngimthanda kakhulu. Ukufa noma umbono walo kuletha iqiniso phambili, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyini. Angazi ukuthi umphakathi uzozizwa kanjani lezi zindaba, kodwa iqiniso lokuthi ngitshele liyangisiza ukuba ngakhe ubuhlobo nabathandekayo bami futhi ngiphinde ngiphile emhlabeni obala futhi ozwakalayo. "Funda futhi
- Umlobi wencwadi ethi "Yidla, Thandaza, Uthando" u-Elizabeth Gilbert uthe ukuvuma umculi othandekayo uRaye Elias
- UCheryl Cole uqinisekisa ukuthi ulindele ingane evela kuLiam Payne
- U-Katy Perry no-Orlando Bloom abasalondolozi ubudlelwano obuhle
U-Elizabeth washiya umyeni wakhe ngenxa yomngane
Umlobi odumile uGilbert wazalwa ngo-1969 e-USA. Waqala ukushada ngo-1994 kuMichael Cooper, kodwa ngo-2002 lo mbhangqwana wamemezela ukuhlakazeka kwawo. Emva kwalokho, u-Elizabeth wahamba waya eBali, lapho kwadingeka abukeze ubuhlobo nomyeni wangaphambili futhi abuyele emuva ngemva kokuhlukanisa. Kulo hambo, uGilbert wahlangana nendoda yakhe yesibili uJoseph Nunez. Yayiveli yabo kuyo yonke imininingwane yayo echazwe engxenyeni yesithathu yencwadi ethi "Yithandaza, thanda." U-Elizabeth uhamba phambili washicilelwa ngo-2006 ngokusakazwa kwamakhophi angaphezu kwezigidi ezingu-10, futhi ngonyaka kamuva uGilbert washada noNunez. Ngo-June 2016, umlobi wamemezela ukuthi ushiya uJosé, kodwa isizathu sokuhlukanisa sasifihle kuze kube namuhla. Njengoba kwacaca, umshado wesibili u-Elizabeth wahlukana ngenxa yothando lwakhe ngomngane wakhe omkhulu uRaya Elias.
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