Umbuzo wokuqeda ukugembula kokugembula kuphuthuma kakhulu emphakathini wesintu. Le nkinga ibonakala njengesifo esibucayi esibangela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukulahlekelwa kwesimo somshado, imonakalo kanye nemiphumela yokuzibulala. Uma umuntu omdala noma intombazane eqala ukukhombisa ukulawula okuphelele komdlalo phezu kwakhe, kuyacaca ukuthi isikhathi sesifikile sokuthola izixazululo zamakhadikhadi.
Indlela yokuphulukisa ukulutha komdlalo, uma umuntu esevele esesimweni esinzima sokukhathazeka kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka? Ukuze ukhethe indlela, udinga ukuxhumana nodokotela wezengqondo okufanele afunde icala elithile futhi akhethe indlela eyodwa yokwelapha.
Impendulo yombuzo wokuqeda ukulutha komdlalo ukubuyisela ukucabanga komuntu.
Uma ingane esikoleni isihlala isikhathi esiningi futhi ikhompuyutha futhi ihlela ukudabuka, uma kungenakho ukufinyelela kwetheyibhile oyikhonzile noma i-intanethi, izizathu zokuxhomeka kwemidlalo kufanele zifunwe kulezi zenzakalo ezilandelayo:
- ukungakwazi ukusebenza ngokuphumelelayo nokuzibonela ezimweni zangempela;
- ukungaphumeleli emfundweni, lapho kungekho mithetho emisiwe emndenini;
- ukugembula kwabazali noma abangane emidlalweni;
- Ukubona okungalungile kwemali njengenani elikhulu kakhulu empilweni;
- umkhuba wokuthembela kuphela enhlanhleni, hhayi ekukwazi ukufeza impumelelo ngemisebenzi yangempela nemisebenzi yangempela.
Izinhlobo zokulutha ukugembula - lokhu kungukugembula kwabantu abadala (imidlalo yokugembula, imishini yokugembula, njll), nemidlalo yekhompyutha yabaselula (imidlalo e-intanethi, imidlalo yokudlala) noma intshiseko yemishini ye-slot.
Izimpawu zokulutha ukugembula ngokwemvelo yizimpawu ezilandelayo:
- ukuphikelela komdlalo womdlalo, lapho umuntu elungisa impilo yakhe emdlalweni;
- ukulahlekelwa ikhono lokuphendula ngokwanele isimo, ukuqapha izenzo zabo nokuzihlola;
- ukuhlukumeza, njengenye yezimpawu zokuthuthukisa ukuxhomeka kwemidlalo;
- ukungakwazi ukuyeka, imvamisa engalawulwayo kanye nesikhathi semidlalo;
- ukweba imali yomdlalo.
Izazi zengqondo, ukhetha amaqhinga okuvimbela ukuxhomeka kwezemidlalo, noma indlela yokuxazulula inkinga enzima, yenziwa ekuthonyeni komuntu. Enye yezindlela ezidlulele kubhalisa kusukela ekuxhaseni kwemidlalo. Iqukethe ekunciphiseni ukufakelwa okudala futhi esikhundleni sokuqinela kunalokho okunamandla. Kodwa ukugcizelela okuyinhloko ochwepheshe benza ekufundiseni umuntu ukuhlukanisa nokulawula umfutho wokumcindezela ezandleni zomdlalo. Ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yokwelashwa isebenza nomndeni nezinye izihlobo zomgijimi. Yilabo abazoba yindawo enokucophelela lapho kufanele afunde ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuthembela.