Namuhla impilo yethu igcwele zonke izinhlobo zolwazi esiyidingayo ukuze sisebenze, sifunde, sizijabulise, sihlele impilo yansuku zonke futhi sifinyelele zonke izinhlobo zeminye imigomo. Ukukhumbula zonke lezi zinqwaba zemininingwane cishe kungenangqondo, yingakho siqala izincwadi eziningana, idayari, ukuze ngandlela-thile uhlele idatha eqoqiwe nsuku zonke. Kodwa-ke, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazi ukuthi ngokudweba amapulani nokuhlela ukuphikisana kwengqondo, kuyasebenza kakhulu ukusebenzisa indlela yamabalazwe engqondo.
Igama elithi "ibalazwe engqondweni" lasungulwa isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esingumNgisi u-Tony Buzan futhi kusukela olimini lwesiNgisi lihunyushwe ngokuthi "ibalazwe engqondweni, imicabango", futhi lisho indlela yokubonga lapho kungenzeka khona ngekhanda ulwazi oluningi. Ukuguqula ukugeleza kwemibono ekudalweni okunye okunenjongo nokusebenzayo kwamabalazwe engqondo kwenzeka ngecebo elihlelekile. Kodwa akulona nje uhlelo oluhle ngezigaba ezilandelanayo nezigaba, kodwa ngesimo sezinhlelo eziningi ezithakazelisayo nezithakazelisayo nemidwebo.
Ungakha kanjani imephu yengqondo?
Ukuze wenze imephu yengqondo udinga ukuqondiswa yiminye yemithetho umuntu ngamunye ayesezilungiselele yona:
- Ukusebenzisa iphepha elihlanzekile, elichazwe ngokucacile ngokuqondisa ukwakha ibalazwe elinjalo, yakha ngokucacile umgomo wokugcina bese uyibeka phakathi kwesithombe, ugcizelela umbala okhethekile kanye nefonti;
- Okulandelayo, kusukela kumqondo oyisisekelo, sinikeza imicibisholo embalwa, ngayinye ezophela ngesikhumbuzo esisha, phakathi kwalokho okusemandleni ukuqala ukuxhumana okuhlukahlukene;
- Ungasebenzisa zonke izinhlobo zombala oqhakazile, ukudweba, imidwebo engavamile, imicibisholo, ngokujwayelekile, ngokuya ngobuciko kumklamo;
- Gweba imithetho, uxoxise, ukufanisa, ukudlala - ukunyakaza okungavamile, ngcono amabalazwe azokhunjulwa.
Izibonelo zamabalazwe engqondo:
- Ukuhlelwa kwezifundo.
- Ukuhlela isikhathi.
- Ukufunda izilimi.
- Ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwamacala.
- Ukwenza izinqumo.
- Ukulungisa imibono nokuningi, okuningi, okuningi okuningi.
Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, amabalazwe engqondo ahambisana kahle nesakhiwo sokucabanga komuntu, okubukwayo nokuziqhenya. Kungcono uma bodwa futhi beyingqayizivele ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukudweba amabalazwe engqondo kuyindlela yebhizinisi neyengqondo kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi. Vele uzame kanye ukubhala imephu yakho yengqondo ukuxazulula izinkinga zakho, futhi uzoqonda ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukuthuthukisa imibono, ukuhlanganisa nokukhiqiza indaba.