Indoda ethandekayo iphinda ibuya ekhaya isuka emsebenzini isikhathele futhi ingaphandle kwezihlobo, ngakho-ke ufuna ukuzwelana nokuthandana? Khona-ke kudingeka wenze umzamo omncane futhi ekugcineni uthole umvuzo osemthethweni. Indlela yokuphumula lo muntu futhi uyilungiselele esimweni esithandana naye, uzokwaziswa kule ngqungquthela.
Indlela yokuphumula othandekayo wakho?
Kumelwe usebenze kulokhu ku-oda:
- Ukuqoqa okugeza okufudumele ngokufaka u-foam namafutha abalulekile emanzini, isibonelo, i-jasmine, ilamula, i-orange noma i-lavender. Beka abathembekile emanzini, uhlale ekhanda lombhede bese ucela ukugeza ikhanda lakhe. I-Shampoo kufanele isakazwe ngezinwele ezisezingeni eliphansi futhi eliyindilinga, idlala nayo, idlula phakathi kweminwe njalonjalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo umuntu angakwazi ukuhamba eduze kwamathempeli alabo abathandekayo, ukugcoba ebunzini, izindlebe, intamo,
- Izenzo ezengeziwe zabesifazane mayelana nendlela yokuphumula umuntu kufanele ziqhubeke ekamelweni. Ukuze ulungiselele kumodi efanele kufanele kusize ukukhanya okungenakuqhathaniswa, umculo othulile nempepho evela esibani elimnandi. Ukuqala kuyadingeka kusukela ngemuva, imisipha yokusebenza kanye nokunyakaza kwe-skin stroking, ukungakhohlwa indawo ezwelayo ye-nape, intamo, izintwana neminwe yemilenze. Lona indawo engavamile kubantu abaningi, ngakho ukunyakaza nokunyakaza kwesimo kule ndawo kuyomjabulisa ngokuqinisekile.
- Kubalulekile ukuphumula okunye nokukhipha umzimba, ukusekela umuntu ngezwi nokukwenza konke ukuze uphumule. Ukuguqula abathembekile emhlane wakhe, usebenzisa wonke amakhono atholakalayo emzimbeni wakhe, ukushayisana nokumenza ajabule ngenjabulo, besebenzisa "izikhali ezinzima": izinwele, isifuba noma ungasebenzisa i-feather noma ice cube.
- Ukuba nesithakazelo sendlela yokuphumuza othandekayo wakho, akufanele uhlale ucabanga nge-caresses yesitho socansi. Ukukhanya kwabathembekile kufanele kugcinwe, kwandise isikhathi sokuqala futhi kubambelele ngokwanele ebusweni bomaphakathi kwamathanga, isisu, izinsipho nentamo. Ukubamba ama-lobes endlebe amaningi kuholela ekuqedeni i-ecstasy.