Zonke izintombi zibambisene isikhathi eside, kanti ezinye zazo zingumyeni osemthethweni, futhi ingane ingaziqhayisa, kodwa nonke nicabanga ukuthi ungadonsa kanjani uthando olusha empilweni yakho? Konke kuvivinywa, kusukela ekuguquleni ukubukeka isikhathi eside kumasayithi okuphola, futhi isikhulu asikasheshi ukuvela emkhathini? Khona-ke, ngokusobala, ukucabangela okungaphezulu (ngomqondo wangempela wezwi) kuyadingeka.
Indlela yokuheha uthando lomuntu empilweni yakho?
Izindlela zokuheha uthando lomuntu endlini eningi, futhi ngokuvamile baziphatha ngokushesha. Kukhona kuphela "kodwa" - kufanele ukholwe ngokuzithoba ukuthi izenzo ozenzile kuzosiza ekufezeni okufisayo, ngaphandle kwalokho umphumela uzoba mncane noma ngeke ube khona.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ubone ukuthi ungakhanga kanjani inhlanhla othandweni, udinga ukuqeda i-ballast, kusukela endala, engasebenzi, okunamathiselwe. Uma ungenjalo, ke akukho uthando olusha oluzokhangwa, nje nje ungamshiyi indawo. Futhi, ungazami ukuthola umuntu othize, hlala komunye umuntu, ngokuvamile asiboni muntu. Kodwa ukukhetha kwethu kungenzeka ukuthi akuphumelelanga noma. Futhi kuvela ukuthi wonke amandla kanye nesikhathi sashiswa.
- Indlela yokudweba amandla othando? Khumbula umthetho omdala - owawunika, wabe wamukelwa. Futhi uma singanikeli izwe ngaphandle kwezikhalazo zethu ngokuphila nokudangala, khona-ke asikho isidingo sokulinda ukubonakala ngokuzumayo kwenjabulo. Ngakho uma udinga uthando, kuzomele udlulise. Kungenziwa ngezindlela ezehlukene, izenzo ezinhle, usizo olungenabugovu kubangani nabaziwayo noma izipho ngendlela yezibonakaliso ezimbili zamanxeba noma amadada aseMandarin (ngo-feng shui umculi oyinhloko wokuheha uthando), izinhliziyo, izinhlangothi zezingelosi, njll. Nguwe kuphela okudingayo ukwenza konke ngobuqotho, ngenhliziyo engenalutho nokunganaki kuleli bhizinisi akudingeki ukuba usondele - ukuthi unikeza, khona-ke uzobuya.
- Yini enye ezoheha uthando? Ukucabanga okunengqondo, cabanga ngokuqinisekiswa okufaneleko futhi uhlale uphindaphinda ngokwengqondo. Isibonelo, yilezi: "Inhliziyo yami idabukisa uthando, futhi ngivulekile ubudlelwane obusha," "Ngithola uthando nomaphi lapho ngiya khona," "Ngifanele ukuthandana futhi ngithola," njll.
- Indlela yokuheha uthando lomunye? Akukho lutho olulula, udinga ukuqhuba umkhuba wemilingo. Kuye sidinga insipho yamanzi, umoya omusha nokushona kwelanga. Ukuqhuba lesi siko kuyadingeka ngenyanga egcwele. Kusihlwa, lapho ilanga liqala ukusondela, sihlala phansi ngefasitela noma ebhaleni bese siqeqesha ngokushaya umoya. Uma ziqala ukuphuma ezinkulu nezinhle, sicabanga ukuthi isithombe sethu nesibindi sakho ngaphakathi komunye umbuso onjalo ohlangothini ohlangothini futhi uvumela i-bubble ukuya ohlangothini lwenyanga. Konke kwenzeka nakanjani, ukukhulula okungaphezu kweyodwa bubble.
- Ukuheha uthando, ungasebenzisa amasu alandelayo. Sithatha ishidi bese sibhala kuyo into ethi: "Ngiyathandeka kakhulu. Ngikhanyisa ukukhanya kwangaphakathi kothando, ubuhle nobulili. Ngidonsela amadoda kimi. Umuntu wami uyangithola. " Sifaka ingilazi yamanzi eshidi. Izindwangu ezintathu, enye emele phakathi kwazo i-clot of energy. Sibeka ingilazi emkhatsini wezintende zezandla, ngaphandle kokuthinta izindonga zengilazi, nokuzwakalisa ngokuzethemba amagama eshidi, kungcono nakakhulu uma uhambisa konke lokhu. Ukushaja, ngakho-ke amanzi, siyaphuza. Yenza le nqubo ekuseni, njengoba uvuka, futhi kusihlwa, ngaphambi kokulala.
- Ukuthola umlingani wakho womuntu ungasebenzisa umculo nezimbali eziheha uthando. Ngokuqondene nomculo, ungafana nemidanti ekhethekile ukuheha uthando, nanoma yiziphi izingoma zomculo ozihlanganisa nabantu abathokozile (ngempela ujabule!, Uthando lwento luphikisana) ngothando. Izimbali zothando zidinga obomvu, eziseningizimu naseningizimu-ntshonalanga yendlu yakho. Ungazibekeli ekamelweni lokulala, kuzothinta ubuhlobo phakathi kozakwethu. Futhi, awukwazi ukugcina izimbali zokufakelwa ekhaya, ukususa izimbali, i-ikebans, ukufaka izitshalo eziwela phansi. Futhi ususe ama-cacti - izinaliti zabo ezibukhali zingakwazi "ukugwaza" noma yikuphi, ngisho nemizwa yethando kakhulu.