Noma yikuphi ubuhlobo kufanele buguquke ngezikhathi ezithile. Futhi uqale ucabange ngakho mhlawumbe ngaphambi kokuba ube nesithukuthezi ndawonye, ngoba sekwephuzile kakhulu ukwenza noma yini uma konke sekuqalile ukuhlukana. Futhi uma konke kulungile, ungakwazi njalo ukwenza into entsha ebuhlotsheni, okwenza kube ngcono futhi ungawavumeli ukuba apholile phansi.
Ukuze unikeze izinga eliphakeme lesifiso sakho noma ukuvuselela ukuphindaphindiwe kwemizwa kungaba ngezindlela ezilula futhi eziphumelelayo. Omunye wabo isidlo esihle esidala ndawonye. Izazi zengqondo zizokutshela indlela yokuhlela isidlo sothando ngothandekayo wakho ukuze izinkumbulo zakhe zizokufudumala kokubili isikhathi eside.
Indlela yokuhlela isidlo sangokwenyama somuntu othandekayo?
Inketho yendabuko - amakhandlela, i-champagne, umculo omuhle wokuphumula kanye nezinye izimfanelo zothando - ngokuqinisekile uzokujabulisa insizwa yakho, noma kunjalo, cishe okokuqala. Ngezikhathi ezalandela, izinketho ezinjalo ngeke zimangaze muntu futhi zingase zibonakale zibe mnandi. Ngakho-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthi ungahlela kanjani ubusuku bokuthanda ekhaya, sebenzisa i-algorithm elandelayo:
- Lungisa ukudla ngukuhlwa kobuhlobo bokudla (okuqukethe ama-aphrodisiacs okuthuthukisa ukushayela ucansi), kodwa sebenzisa imikhiqizo ejwayelekile yokupheka. Akufanele ukwedluliswe ngokweqile yi-exoticism, ukuze umqhubi wakho angenzi ngendlela engafanele ngesidlo esisha ngokudla okunobuthi noma ukukhushulwa kwesisu somzimba.
- Yakha isimo sengqondo nazo zonke izici ezidingekayo, uhlele kahle amakhandlela ngendlela ehlelekile, ufihle ifenisha, uyihlanganise ngezicucu zendwangu - kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza lokhu endlini encane. Vumelana - ngokwesibonelo, isomisi esingafihliwe sezingubo ekhoneni ekamelweni ngeke lisize kakhulu ukufutheka. Ngokuvamile, kubalulekile ukuhlobisa igumbi lobusuku obuseduze.
- Thola izingubo zangaphansi ezinhle. Ungayibonisi noma uhlangabezane nomlingani ku-negligee-mhlawumbe kuyommangaza, kodwa umgomo wakho awukona ukumangala kuphela, kepha ukudukisa. Ngokungangabazeki, uma impilo yakho yobulili ibonisa izimpawu kanye ngonyaka, khona-ke lo mlingani uzokuhlasela ngempela kufana ne-movie. Uma wenza uthando kaningi - umzimba wakho kuye, yebo, kuyisiko, futhi ngokuyiveza ngokukhethekile, ungabangela imizwa ephikisanayo futhi ubheke ukungathandeki. Kuphumelela kakhulu ukuthembela ngemuva kwezinto eziwilekile, "ngengozi" ukuphonsa umlenze emlenzeni wakho, ukuze othandekayo wakho abone ukuthi ugqoke amasheya enhlanzi enhle ... Ngokuvamile, sebenzisa i-arsenal yezintambo zezinsikazi, futhi konke kuzohamba ngokuphelele!
Ungaphi lapho uchitha isidlo sothando?
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukudala uthando ekhaya (kunezingane ezincane noma, nakakhulu, umamazala), kunezinye izindawo lapho kunzima ukuhlela isidlo sokuthanda umyeni wakho. Ukuqasha igumbi ehotela, ukuhleleka itafula endaweni yokudlela kusemandleni onke kuwo wonke owesifazane, ngoba, ukuze amadoda asithande, kufanele nje ngezinye izikhathi sithathe isinyathelo, futhi singalindeli izintandokazi emvelweni ... kunalokho, kusuka kubantu.
Kulabo abadala futhi abafisa ukuchitha isikhathi esingavamile, umuntu angahle ahlele ubusuku bomshado ophahleni. Kulabo abangathinteki ngezindlela, hamba e-balloon emoyeni oshisayo, futhi ungaphinda uqashe i-limousine uphinde uhambe ushayela edolobheni ebusuku.
Kunoma yikuphi, uma ucabanga ukuthi ungalungisa kanjani isidlo sothando - kholwa mina, uzophumelela, ngoba wena, njengomunye umuntu, uyazi ukuthi uyathandeka othandekayo!