Kodwa-ke, indoda ngayinye, njengowesifazane, ifuna ukuba nomuntu onokwethenjelwa, othembekile futhi othandekayo, ngakho-ke, ngokukhetha owesifazane wakhe, uqhuba ngokukhetha ngokucophelela, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi ayinakuqagela. Kodwa indoda ikhetha kanjani umfazi wayo - umbuzo odinga ukucatshangelwa okuningiliziwe.
Yimaphi amadoda abesifazane abakhethayo?
Bakhetha okuzobakhathalela. Phela, ekujuleni komphefumulo kuwo wonke umuntu uhlala nomfana omncane, elambile ukufudumala komama nomusa.
Ukukhathazeka akuyona inkomba yokuhlala isikhathi eside, okungathí sina, ubudlelwano. Okhethiweyo wakhe kufanele abe nesizotha, okufunayo ukubonisa kubangani bakho abakhulu, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - kubazali bakho.
Uma sicabangela ukukhetha komuntu wesifazane ngokwemininingwane yenyama, ucwaningo lwesayensi luye lwafakazela: ubulili obuhlukile njengomfazi ukhetha owesifazane onamahlangothi aluhlaza. Yilokhu, njengokugcwala kwezindebe, okufakazela ukuzala kwesifazane.
Amadoda athweswa ubulili ngoba nje kungenye yezimfanelo kuphela abesifazane abanobulili obuhle kakhulu. Noma ubani ofuna ukusondelana nabathandekayo, wayekhululekile, wazizwa ephephile. Ngakho-ke, ukukhetha kwakhe kuyokwehla kulowo okhanyela ukwethembela , lowo ongazibeka wona.
Kungani amadoda ekhetha abesifazane abasebancane?
Lapho esemdala, uma efuna ukubona intombazane encane eceleni kwakhe, ngokuvamile u-3-4 eminyakeni encane kunaye. Kusukela ekubukeni kwesimiso somuntu, isigamu sesilisa sesintu njalo sifuna ukuzizwa sikwazi ukuheha owesifazane omncane kunabo. Ngakho-ke, umuntu, njengokungazi lutho, uzama ukugwema umcabango wokuguga, isizungu nokungabikho kobuhle bokuqala.
Kungani indoda ikhetha owesifazane osekhulile?
Abaningi bakhangwa ukuhlakanipha kwabesifazane, okuyinto, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzwakala kudabukisayo, ifika kuphela ngeminyaka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emibhangqwana lapho oshade naye ekhulile kunokhethiweyo wakhe, izingxabano zixazululwa ngokuphumelelayo, ngokushesha. Konke lokhu kuchazwa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwesifazane.