Abaningi bakhathazeke ngombuzo walokho abantu abathanda ngabesifazane. Izazi zengqondo zithi, into yokuqala kakhulu umuntu ayibheka ngayo ukubonakala kwakhe. Intombazane kumele ihlale iqaphele, inakekele isikhumba sayo, izinwele zakhe. Imfashini kanye nesitayela sokugqoka. Ama-scent amahle kuphela okufanele avele kuwo.
Umusa nokunakekelwa nokusekelwa. Lokho indoda engaphuphi ngomkayo ukudumisa nokusekela ezikhathini ezinzima. Maye, ngokuvamile okuphambene kwenzeka - ukugxeka nokuhlambalaza njalo.
Ukuzinikela. Wonke umuntu ohlonipha yena okungenani kancane ngeke athethelele ukukhashelwa kwakhe uhhafu.
Uthando, ububele nobubele. Noma yimuphi umuntu ulindela owesifazane ububele nothando. Futhi njengoba lona wesifazane engumgcini wezindlu, uphoqelekile ukuba alondoloze ukuvumelana . Thanda amadoda, futhi ngokuqinisekile ayokuthanda.
Yini amadoda afana embhedeni nowesifazane?
Amantombazane embhedeni anjengokuningi, kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu esiyibhalayo. Ngakho:
- Amadoda ahlanya ngabesifazane ababonisa isinyathelo embhedeni;
- bathanda amantombazane alungele ukuhlolwa, isb. ukunikeza izinzwa ezintsha ezithakazelisayo;
- abantu bavele behluleke ekudumiseni futhi bafuna ukuzwa ukuthi bangabantu abanocansi futhi abahlukile;
- amadoda amaningi afisa ukulala ocansini;
- bahlanya ngezambatho zangaphansi ezinhle noma izicathulo;
- ukumangala nokuzidela kumuntu wakho kuzobangela ukujabula kwangaphandle. Yiba nobulili ngokuphelele endaweni engalindelekile.
Kungani amadoda afana nabesifazane asekhulile?
Namuhla akusimangazi futhi kunencazelo elula. Intombazane encane, ebhekene nobunzima ebuhlotsheni, ayikwazi ukuziphatha futhi ngokuvamile iqala "ukuhlaziya." Ngesikhathi owesifazane osekhulile, onolwazi nolwazi, uziveza ngendlela ehle. Ungakwazi ukweqa ngokwanele noma yiliphi iqembu eliphikisanayo. Kukhona ubuqili obuningi ebuhlotsheni nomuntu, okuyinto, ngeshwa, ngenxa yentsha yabo, amantombazane amancane awunabo.
Amadoda afana nabesifazane abagcwele?
Kwabesifazane, isihloko sesisindo ngaso sonke isikhathi sifanelekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu banombono wokuthi bonke abantu abesilisa bathanda kakhulu. Kodwa sifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ngokwemiphumela yemiphumela yamuva, amadoda amaningi akhetha amantombazane angama-65 kuya ku-95 kg.
Ngesikhathi sokuhlola, bathola nokuthi ubani othanda abesifazane abancanyana. Kubonakala ukuthi laba bangabantu abasha abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-30. Kodwa amadoda avuthiwe abanjwe amantombazane amancane aphuzi, aphethwe ngokugcwele, aphuzi.