Emgomweni wenkosikazi enhle, abantu batsha izimpawu eziningi. Ukuze ukwanelise umuntu wakho futhi umjabulise, udinga ukuba wesifazane, inyama, mnene, njll. Kunezincomo eziningana ezizokwenza kube lula ukufezekisa ukuphelela kule ndaba.
Yikuphi inkosikazi okubhekwa njengelungile?
Ngokusho kocwaningi, amadoda asebesifazane abe nokubukeka okukhulu kakhulu. Ngendlela, ububele bomlingani bubaluleke kakhulu.
Izincomo eziwusizo kanjani ukuba ngumthandi omuhle:
- Intombazane kumele yazi zonke izindawo zayo ezingaqondakali ukuze zizwe umzimba wayo. Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuthi athole kalula izindawo ezifanayo emzimbeni womlingani. Hlola umzimba womuntu, usebenzisa lokhu, isibonelo, insizi.
- Ngokusho kwabameleli bobulili obunamandla, umthandi omuhle embhedeni ungowesifazane ongagodli imizwelo yakhe futhi angaduma, akhamuluke, njll. Kubalulekile ukuthi kungokoqobo, ngaphandle komdlalo kanye nokulinganisa.
- Imfihlo ebalulekile yomthandi omuhle ukuzithanda wena nomzimba wakho. Uma owesifazane enezinkathazo futhi enamahloni, khona-ke asikho isidingo sokukhuluma nganoma yikuphi ukuhleleka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungabi nobulili, uma ungafuni, ngoba injabulo ngeke ithole bobabili abalingani.
- Ubulili kufanele buhluke. Ungakwazi ukushintsha ngezikhathi ngezikhathi izindawo, isibonelo, unike amandla ngosheshini, etafuleni ekhishini, njll. Kuthuswe ukuthi indoda ingaba umdanso okhulayo noma izingubo zangaphansi zangaphandle. Ungakhohlwa ngemidlalo yokudlala indima.
- Ikhwalithi ebalulekile yomthandi omuhle isinyathelo, okufanele siboniswe ekamelweni. Ungagodli imizwa yakho, kodwa ungabi nonya . Uma ufuna ukushintsha okuthile noma wenze into entsha ebuhlotsheni bobulili, kufanelekile ukuphawula lokhu. Bobabili abalingani kumele benze lokhu. Ukungafaneleki akufanele kube khona embhedeni.