Amadoda nabesifazane - sihluke kakhulu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi sivela amaplanethi ahlukene. Siyaqonda ukuthi ubulili obuhlukile bunzima njengathi, kodwa kunzima ukucabanga impilo yakho ngaphandle kwehlombe lomuntu, uthando kanye nomuzwa wokuthi uyathandeka futhi uyathandwa.
Ukucabangela ngombuzo wokuthi ungaqonda kanjani isimo sengqondo somuntu, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi sikhuluma ngezilimi ezahlukene. Futhi ukuze uzichazele wena, ungubani ngempela kuye, kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukuqagela ukuziphatha kwakhe, imishwana.
Indlela yokuqonda isimo sengqondo sangempela somuntu othandekayo kuwe?
- Ukuziphatha . Kubonakala sengathi uyathandana, ngoba uhlale ekubiza ngothando, ngobumnene? Hlola ngokucophelela: konke lokhu kungasebenza futhi kusebenza kuzo zonke izintombazane ezithathwe ngokuthi "bunny", "ilanga". Yini engingayisho, kodwa incazelo eningi kakhulu yalokhu kuziphatha ayisho lutho kodwa i-womanizer. Ngaphezu kwalokho, insizwa ingakunika izipho nokuncoma. Ngesikhathi lapho into engeke isebenzele wena, akusikho ukuthi wenqabe ukuhlinzeka ngokusekelwa kokuziphatha, ngakho-ke kungakuhlambazaza, ukugxeka abantu. Esikhathini esilandelayo, isimo sengqondo sakhe sangempela ngawe sibonakala. Indoda enjalo kufanele igcinwe kude, noma isuswe nabangane.
- Isikhathi . Uchitha isikhathi kangaki ndawonye? Ukuzama ukuphendula lo mbuzo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi akukhona mayelana nezingxoxo zangaphandle kanye nocansi. Indoda inesithakazelo kuwe - yilapho ilungele ukulalela izikhalazo zakho ngokuthi ukhathele kanjani umsebenzi wokusebenza njalo futhi "awusenaso isikhathi sokuthenga lesi sigqoko futhi, ucabange?". Futhi makangathinti neze lesi sihloko, kodwa ulungele ukukulalela, ukusekela nje ngoba ubalulekile kuye.
Indlela yokuqonda isimo sengqondo somuntu othandana nomuntu osebenza naye?
Intukuthelo yabesifazane kule ndaba ngeke neze ihluleke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akusikho indawo ukukhumbula ezinye izimfihlo. Ngakho-ke, kulo lonke usuku lokusebenza olusebenzayo, uyaqiniseka ukuthi uyothinta isandla sakho, ngokusobala nje ngengozi, futhi uma uhlala unesibindi, uzobe esinciphisa amehlo akhe, alahleke futhi angaziphatha kahle kakhulu - izibonakaliso ezinkulu wena Kusobala ukuthi kuhle.
Kunzima ukuqonda amadoda afana nabesifazane. Lapha noma intuition esebenze kahle noma incazelo yolimi oluyimfihlo yabameleli bobulili obuhlukile izosiza.