Ukusho ukuthi zonke izintombi zifuna ukwazi ukuthi ziba zilungile kanjani. Akuwona wonke umuntu olungele ukusho ukuthi, "Yebo, ngifuna ukuphelela!", Ukulwa ngempela nokungaphumeleli kwabo futhi ngokusebenza kanzima nangomsebenzi ukubenza babe izihlonipho. Kulula kakhulu ukuyeka kubo ngesandla sakho, futhi ufihle ngokucophelela kwabanye, noma uzikhandle ngokwakho. Phela, ungazicabangela ukuthi ungobugovu, kodwa ukonga, hhayi okubi, kodwa ngokuqondile, ongenkani nenkani, kodwa enenkani nokunye.
Ubani ofuna ukukhohlisa ngale ndlela? I-Ambient? Khona-ke, ngokungangabazeki, ungase ufihle ukuzibamba kwakho kwangempela ngezikhathi ezithile, kepha uma konke kwaziwa, kuzodingeka uvuselele ubuhlobo nabantu.
Wena ngokwakho? Wena awukwazi ngisho nokuphatha ukukhohlisa. Ngakho-ke, ungaba nobuvila ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungaba kanjani intombazane enhle futhi usebenze ngokwakho. Ngisho noma ungazange uphelele, ngokuqinisekile uthuthukise okungenani ezinye zezimfanelo zakho.
Amathiphu okuba intombazane enhle
- Hlonipha indoda yakho nokuthi yini oyithandayo kuye. Ungamangali ngezinto ezithandwayo, izenzo namazwi. Kungcono ukugcizelela futhi ukuthi uqonde ukuthi lokhu okuphawulekayo noma lowo mcimbi usempilweni yomuntu. Ngokuvamile uphinda ukuthi uyathandeka kuwe, ukuthi uqinisile, ukuthi awusoze wakwazi ukwenza okuthile okubalulekile ngaphandle kwakhe (kusuka ku-crane okwakulungisiwe kuya kubantfwana bakho abakhulu). Ikakhulukazi uma kukhona abangane, ozakwabo, abajwayelene nabo nje.
- Dala umuzwa wendoda ukuthi akekho omunye wesifazane ongamnika ukunakekelwa okufanayo, induduzo nezinye izimo, njengawe. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi lawa akuwona amagama angenalutho, kodwa izinzwa zokukhonjiswa kwezikhonkwane. Ake sichaze ngesibonelo. Uma uhlale uhlanzekile endlini, upheka kahle, ujabulele ukuhlangana nomuntu osebenza emsebenzini, ngakho-ke ungabi nobuvila ukugcizelela ukuthi konke lokhu kwenziwa kuye, nokuthi uyajabula ukumnakekela. Futhi uma umuntu efika ekhaya futhi ebona izitsha ezingahlanjululwa, isiqandisini esingenalutho, ngisho nomkakhe akasekho ekhaya, khona-ke uzobe eselahlekelwa isifiso sokubuyela endlini enjalo.
- Ngokuphambene nephuzu lesibili, ake sithi kudingeka sizinakekele. Thola isikhathi semisebenzi oyikhonzile, ukuhlangabezana nabangani noma abanye abantu abanentshisekelo kuwe. Uma uzizinikela ngokuphelele ekukhonzeni indoda futhi uzoqondiswa empilweni kuphela ngezinto ezithandayo nezindinganiso zakhe, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zona ngokwazo ziyophela phakathi kwalolu hlu lwezinto ezithandwa umuntu. Ukuze ube yinto enhle emadodeni, akwanele ukuba abe nokonga futhi anakekele, udinga ukuziqonda ngokwakho, ube nomuzwa wokuziqhenya, khona-ke emehlweni omuntu ozosho okuthile.
Ungaba kanjani omuhle ngokuphelele?
Kunzima kakhulu ukuthuthukisa iseluleko somhlaba wonke ngobuhle bangaphandle. Wonke umuntu unezintandokazi zakhe siqu, futhi ngandlela-thile akuhlakaniphile ukushintsha ukubonakala kwakhe ukuze ajabulise indoda. Emva kwakho konke, indoda yedwa namuhla, futhi kusasa mhlawumbe enye, futhi ungabuyeli izinwele zakho bese ugijimela ebusweni beplastiki, kwesokudla?
Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kukhona ukubukeka kwabesifazane okujabulisayo kubo bonke abantu ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Ukuzilungisa. Yini ehlanganisiwe kulo mqondo? Lezi izingubo eziphephile (ezingabhebhethiwe, zihlanzekile, zifake imfashini, zihlezi kahle kuwe), i-manicure kanye ne-pedicure, izinwele ezihlanzekile, ezibekwe ebusweni bezinwele, hhayi ukuphazamiseka, ukuntuleka kwezinwele ezingenangqondo emzimbeni, ukwakheka okulinganiselwe, ngisho nokubala. Zonke lezi zakhi zinikezwa kalula ukulungiswa futhi, ngenxa yalokho, wonke umuntu angenza ukubonakala kwazo kufinyelele ekuhleleni.
Ungaba kanjani ophelele kwezocansi?
Futhi embuzweni wokuthi ungaba kanjani obala embhedeni, kunzima futhi ukunikeza iseluleko esilungile kuphela. Kodwa kubonakala ukuthi abesifazane abaningi benza amaphutha afanayo amadoda angathandi. Ngakho-ke, sinikeza amanye amathiphu abaluleke kakhulu:
- Ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuhlanzeka. Njengoba kusobala ukuthi kwakungekho,
kodwa abanye abantu basakhohlwa ngakho. - Izitshalo ezidlulele. Kukhona-ke, abathandi bezinwele ezithombeni zobulili besifazane, kodwa isabelo sabo esilinganisweni samadoda asinakwenzeka.
- Ukulinganisa kwe-orgasm. Iphutha elivamile kakhulu phakathi kwabesifazane. Uma unombono womuntu, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuba uqotho naye, futhi ungenzi.
- Ukuzinza. Ukuhamba isikhathi eside yizinsuku lapho owesifazane kwakufanele akhombise ukuthi ubulili abuyithandi neze, nokuthi uthanda kuphela ngenxa yabantu. Ungesabi ukuvela ngisho nokuqedwa, ngokuba ushintsho empilweni yobulili zonke izindima zilungile.